The Susan Winter Show

Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward.

These are the foundational principles:

1.Hope:

2.Filtering:

3.Communication:

4.Process:

Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools:

1.Accepting it's over

2.Separating ‘the dream' from reality

3.Trust LIFE to bring you love again.

What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule' for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.'

3. The Discovery Phase:The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility.

6. The Bonding Phase:his phase is marked by the deepening of your emotions for each other and the strengthening of your relationship.

9. The Evaluation Phase: This is the phase where you begin to determine the long-term potential of this person.

Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart.

·Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is based on genuine love and respect.

·Understand the Game's Cycles: Discover the hallmark patterns and cycles of a transactional relationship to better navigate and address this con early on.

·How To Protect Your Heart: Awareness of the game and its cycles will ensure you're one step ahead and not letting ‘the illusion' destroy your emotional well-being.

Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this:

·Underlying Factors:Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life

·Break the Cycle:Learn how to break the cycle of being addicted to the drama, seeing it for what it is, and understanding the consequences of these actions when done repeatedly, and how it keeps you in opposition to the loving relationship you seek to create.

·Create a New Love Model:Through assessing what doesn't work and seeing how it keeps you from getting the love you want; you can begin to create a new love model that focuses on attraction that is healthy.

Are you agonizing over the fact that it's your fault for the breakup? Here's how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation: 

·Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free.

·How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation

·How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that your decision was right, or take action to get your ex back

You did everything right — were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here's how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets.

Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here's how to shift your mindset and free your fear

Monogamy, or Not? Which is the right choice for you? If you don't know what you want, you'll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that's right for you.

Struggling To Let Go? No one said letting go was easy, but here's how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find love again.