THE SWEATY PILLOW

By Lara Smith

We know menopause. It isn’t just about hot flashes and night sweats. It’s a journey that encompasses everything from navigating the shame, physical changes in the body, mental health, sense of purp

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September 11, 2026 The Menopause Conversation Every Husband Needs to Hear
S.2. Ep6 This episode is for every partner who has ever thought, “I don’t understand what’s happening… but I want to.”
The mood shifts.
The tension that feels sudden.
The conversations that turn into conflict without a clear reason.
The quiet realization that something is changing—but no one has explained what, or why.
In this episode, Lara sits down with Jesse Robertson, founder of @husbands4menopause, for a conversation titled The Menopause Conversation Every Husband Needs to Hear.
After realizing he knew almost nothing about menopause, Jesse set out to educate himself—and in doing so, became one of the leading voices helping husbands better understand what their wives experience during perimenopause and menopause.
What started as one simple question—“Do women want to talk to their husbands about menopause?”—quickly became something much bigger.
Because the response wasn’t hesitation. It was overwhelming. Women asking to be understood. To be supported.
To not feel like they have to go through this alone.
Jesse shares how that moment shifted everything—how recognizing the education gap led him to learn, speak up, and create content that now reaches millions every month across social media. And this conversation goes far beyond awareness.
It’s about the reality that menopause doesn’t just affect women—it affects relationships. When partners understand what’s happening, frustration can turn into empathy, and conflict can turn into connection.
We also explore the gap so many couples face: men are rarely taught about menopause, yet are expected to support their partner through one of the most significant hormonal transitions of her life.
And because this is The Sweaty Pillow, we talk honestly about what it feels like to realize you’ve been missing something important—and what it looks like to step up, learn, and show up differently.
Because sometimes support doesn’t start with having the answers.
Sometimes it starts with asking better questions.
🎙️ September 10, 2026 | 12:30AM MST
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48min
August 13, 2026 The Science of Nighttime Recovery
S.2. Ep5
This episode is for anyone who ends their day exhausted… but still can’t fully switch off. The racing thoughts. The mental to-do lists. The feeling of being physically tired, but mentally wired. The quiet frustration of knowing you need rest — but not knowing how to actually get it.
In this episode, Lara sits down with Greg Macdonald, Founder & CEO of Bathorium, to explore a perspective most of us overlook: recovery isn’t something you earn — it’s something your body needs. And this conversation goes far beyond “just relax.”
Greg shares what he’s learned from building a brand rooted in intentional recovery, and why something as simple as a nighttime ritual can have a powerful impact on sleep, stress, and overall well-being. We talk about the science behind why our minds tend to replay, plan, and worry at night — and how that directly affects our ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.
He also shares what real recovery can look like: how to create a ritual that signals safety to your body, how to disconnect from the demands of the day, and why small, consistent habits can completely change how you feel.
And because this is The Sweaty Pillow, we talk honestly about the pressure to “earn” rest — and how shifting that mindset might be the key to actually feeling better.
Because sometimes better sleep doesn’t come from doing more. Sometimes it comes from learning how to slow down. — Follow us on Instagram @thesweatypillow
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@livebathorium
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July 16, 2026 Menopause is Inevitable. Suffering through it isn’t with Dr. Somi Javaid
S.2. Ep4
This episode is for every woman who has ever felt like something is shifting… and no one is really talking about it in a way that makes sense.
The identity changes. The body changes. The emotions that feel louder, sharper, or harder to ignore. The quiet realization that the life you’ve built might not fully fit anymore.
In this episode, Lara sits down with Dr. Somi Javaid, a board-certified OB/GYN and women’s health expert who is redefining how we understand midlife, hormones, and what it actually means to feel well in your body.
And this conversation goes far beyond “this is just part of aging.”
Dr. Javaid breaks down how hormonal shifts impact everything — from mood, energy, sleep, libido, and mental clarity — and why so many women are dismissed, misdiagnosed, or told to just “push through it.”
She also shares what women should actually be looking for when it comes to their health: how to advocate for yourself, what real support can look like, and why understanding your body is one of the most powerful things you can do in this phase of life.
And because this is The Sweaty Pillow, we talk honestly about what it feels like when your body no longer responds the way it used to — and how that doesn’t mean something is wrong, it means something is changing.
Because sometimes feeling better doesn’t start with ignoring the symptoms.
Sometimes it starts with finally being heard.
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@dr.somijavaid
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@hermdheatlth
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@laralusome
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*The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional for medical concerns.
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37min
June 18, 2026 Menopause Sleep Starts 16 Hours Before Bed with Angela Longo
S.2. Ep3
This episode is for every woman who has ever thought, “I’m doing all the things… so why do I still feel like this?”
The weight that won’t move. The sleep that feels broken. The hot flashes. The stress. The exhaustion. The “is this menopause, or is something else going on?” of it all.
In this episode, Lara sits down with Angela Longo, a board-certified health coach and integrative nutrition expert who works with women on thyroid health, autoimmune issues, hormones, stress, and sleep.
And the conversation goes way beyond “eat better and sleep more.”
Angela breaks down how stress, toxic load, thyroid disruption, under-eating, over-exercising, dehydration, and everyday habits can quietly make perimenopause and menopause feel harder than it needs to.
She also shares the small things that can make a real difference: not reaching for your phone the second you wake up, getting morning sunlight, drinking water before coffee, choosing quality food over restriction, taking a few deep breaths before meals, and paying attention to what your body is actually asking for.
And because this is The Sweaty Pillow, we also talk sleep — including the story behind Slumber Cool, the mattress Angela created with women and hot sleepers in mind.
Because sometimes feeling better does not start with a complete life overhaul. Sometimes it starts with one small shift your nervous system has been begging for.
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Connect with Angela Longo on Instagram
@slumbercoolmattress
Learn more about Angela here
withinhealth.net
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Connect with host Lara Smith on Instagram
@laralusome
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*The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional for medical concerns.
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33min
February 27, 2026 Inside the Menopause Brain with Dr. Mindy Pelz
S.2. Ep2 Season 2 is officially in full swing and we are not easing in quietly. The Sweaty Pillow is turning the volume up on the conversations women actually want to have, with smarter science, sharper truths, and support that feels like it was designed by women who get it.
What if menopause is not breaking your brain but rewiring it for power?
What if the depression, brain fog, and identity shift so many women feel is not failure but a biological reset you were never taught to understand?
In this episode we welcome Dr. Mindy Pelz to decode what is happening to the female brain during perimenopause and menopause. A functional health expert, bestselling author of Fast Like a Girl, Eat Like a Girl, and Age Like a Girl, Dr. Mindy explains the science behind brain fog, depression, metabolic shifts, and the neurological reset that can unlock a new level of clarity and self-leadership. What if this transition is not the end of who you were, but the beginning of who you are meant to become?
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Join The Sweaty Pillow Community here
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@dr.mindypelz
Learn about Dr. Pelz here
Find her new book Age Like a Girl here
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@laralusome
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*The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional for medical concerns.
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40min
January 15, 2026 Goodbye Menopause Belly! (And Every Lie You Were Ever Told About It) with Cindy Topel
S.2. Ep1 The Sweaty Pillow returns with a brand new season. We are turning up the volume with deeper conversations, sharper science, and the real support you already know and trust for this Season 2 launch. This season will cover everything related to perimenopause and menopause, with bite-sized, life-saving tips to help you not just survive but actually thrive in midlife. Sleep, hormones, weight, mood, gut health, and the confidence to feel like yourself again. It is all back in Season 2, and yes, we brought receipts.
What if everything you have been told about menopause belly is wrong?
What if everything we’ve been taught—eat less, work out more, push harder—has been the biggest lie of all?
And here is the real plot twist. It is not about calories.
In this episode, certified menopause and weight-loss specialist Cindy Topel blows up the biggest myths about menopause belly and midlife weight gain and asks the uncomfortable question no one else is asking: have women been given the wrong advice about their bodies for decades?
This is not new year, new you.
It is new year, same you, just finally supported.
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Join The Sweaty Pillow Community here
Connect with Cindy Topel on Instagram
@menopausepath
Learn about Cindy’s one on one coaching programs here
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@laralusome
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*The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional for medical concerns.
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44min
January 01, 2026 Sleep, Hormones, and the Female Body: What Medicine Missed for Decades with Dr. Andrea Matsumura
Today, Lara is joined by one of the leading voices in women’s sleep health: the extraordinary Dr. Andrea Matsumura, Board-Certified Sleep Medicine Specialist, Internal Medicine Physician, and nationally recognized expert on the biology of midlife sleep.
As a clinician, educator, and advocate, Dr. Matsumura has dedicated her career to understanding why so many women stop sleeping in midlife, and why the answers are almost never as simple as “stress” or “hormones.” From her work diagnosing complex sleep disorders at The Oregon Clinic to her leadership roles within the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, Dr. Matsumura brings clarity, compassion, and science to a topic too often minimized or misunderstood.
In this episode, Dr. Matsumura breaks down the real physiology behind women’s changing sleep in midlife including how shifting estrogen impacts your sleep architecture, why hot flashes aren’t the whole story, and the surprising number of women who unknowingly meet criteria for conditions like restless legs syndrome, sleep apnea, and chronic insomnia. She explains the difference between normal aging and true sleep pathology, the role of cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, and why women deserve a far more thorough, and specialized, approach to their sleep concerns.
If you’ve ever wondered why you’re suddenly wide awake at 2 AM, why your doctor waved away your symptoms, or what a sleep evaluation should look like for women in midlife, you’re in the right place. Dr. Matsumura is here to offer real answers, real validation, and real tools to help you return to deep, restorative sleep.
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*The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Consult your healthcare professional for any medical concerns. Information shared is not a substitute for professional medical guidance.
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35min
December 04, 2025 Unlocking Better Sleep: Chronotypes, Sleep Optimization, and Menopause with Dr. Michael Breus
Today, Lara is joined by one of the most respected voices in modern sleep science: the brilliant Dr. Michael Breus, Clinical Psychologist and Board-Certified Sleep Specialist.
Recently named the Top Sleep Specialist in California and recognized as one of the ten most influential people in sleep, Dr. Breus has built an extraordinary career reshaping how we understand rest, energy, and the biological timing that drives every part of our lives. With more than 40 appearances on The Dr. Oz Show and multiple bestselling books—including The Power of When and Energize!—Dr. Breus has helped millions discover that there is a science-backed right time to do everything: sleep, eat, think, exercise, connect, and reboot.
In this episode, Dr. Breus unpacks the truth about chronotypes—your internal biological rhythm—and explains why honoring your unique timing is the key to better sleep and more consistent energy, especially in midlife. He breaks down the genetics behind your chronotype, why menopause can dramatically shift your sleep patterns, and what you can do about it. From metabolic health and movement to strategic habits that support your circadian rhythm, he lays out an actionable path forward for anyone who feels like their sleep or energy has come undone.
If you’ve ever wondered why you “can’t sleep like you used to,” why your nights changed the moment midlife arrived, or how to finally align your biology with your lifestyle, you’re in the right place. Dr. Breus shows us that when you understand your chronotype, you unlock more than better sleep—you unlock a smarter, calmer, more energized version of yourself in menopause and beyond.

Connect with Dr. Breus below!
Take the Chronotype Quiz: Chronotype Quiz
Discover the Mattress Toppers: Mattress Toppers
Read Dr. Breus’ latest book: Sleep, Drink, Breathe (2024)
Explore all of Dr. Breus’ books: Other books
Join The Sweaty Pillow Community here
Shop LUSOMÉ here
Use code: TSP25 for 25% off
Connect with The Sweaty Pillow on Instagram @thesweatypillow 
Find us on TikTok @the.sweaty.pillow
Connect with Lara Smith @laralusome
***The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Consult your healthcare professional for any medical concerns. Information shared is not a substitute for professional medical guidance.***

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57min
December 02, 2025 Unlocking Better Sleep: Chronotypes, Sleep Optimization, and Menopause with Dr. Michael Breus
Today, Lara is joined by one of the most respected voices in modern sleep science: the brilliant Dr. Michael Breus, Clinical Psychologist and Board-Certified Sleep Specialist.
Recently named the Top Sleep Specialist in California and recognized as one of the ten most influential people in sleep, Dr. Breus has built an extraordinary career reshaping how we understand rest, energy, and the biological timing that drives every part of our lives. With more than 40 appearances on The Dr. Oz Show and multiple bestselling books—including The Power of When and Energize!—Dr. Breus has helped millions discover that there is a science-backed right time to do everything: sleep, eat, think, exercise, connect, and reboot.
In this episode, Dr. Breus unpacks the truth about chronotypes—your internal biological rhythm—and explains why honoring your unique timing is the key to better sleep and more consistent energy, especially in midlife. He breaks down the genetics behind your chronotype, why menopause can dramatically shift your sleep patterns, and what you can do about it. From metabolic health and movement to strategic habits that support your circadian rhythm, he lays out an actionable path forward for anyone who feels like their sleep or energy has come undone.
If you’ve ever wondered why you “can’t sleep like you used to,” why your nights changed the moment midlife arrived, or how to finally align your biology with your lifestyle, you’re in the right place. Dr. Breus shows us that when you understand your chronotype, you unlock more than better sleep—you unlock a smarter, calmer, more energized version of yourself in menopause and beyond.

Connect with Dr. Breus below!
Take the Chronotype Quiz: Chronotype Quiz
Discover the Mattress Toppers: Mattress Toppers
Read Dr. Breus’ latest book: Sleep, Drink, Breathe (2024)
Explore all of Dr. Breus’ books: Other books
Join The Sweaty Pillow Community here
Shop LUSOMÉ here
Use code: TSP25 for 25% off
Connect with The Sweaty Pillow on Instagram @thesweatypillow 
Find us on TikTok @the.sweaty.pillow
Connect with Lara Smith @laralusome
***The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Consult your healthcare professional for any medical concerns. Information shared is not a substitute for professional medical guidance.***

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1h 21min
November 27, 2025 Unlocking Better Sleep: Chronotypes, Sleep Optimization and Menopause with Dr. Michael Breus
Today, Lara is joined by one of the world’s most respected voices in sleep science: the brilliant Dr. Michael Breus, Clinical Psychologist and Board-Certified Sleep Specialist.
Recently named the Top Sleep Specialist in California and one of the 10 most influential people in sleep, Dr. Breus has spent his career rewriting what we think we know about rest, energy, and biological timing. From his appearances on The Dr. Oz Show to his bestselling books, his work proves there is a right time to do everything—sleep, eat, have sex, run a mile—and that your unique chronotype holds the key to true rest, even through menopause.
Dr. Breus joins us to break down the science of chronotypes, how to optimize sleep at every age, and why midlife and menopause can be a pivotal and empowering time to transform your relationship with rest. He shares the genetics behind your biological timing, the real impact of movement and intermittent fasting on your energy, and actionable tools to help you go from dragging to thriving.
If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t sleep, how to sync your life with your natural rhythms, or what your doctor should be telling you about sleep health, you’re in the right place. Dr. Breus is here to show us how unlocking your chronotype is truly the gateway to better sleep, better energy, and a better midlife.
Connect with Dr. Breus below!
Take the Chronotype Quiz: Chronotype Quiz
Discover the Mattress Toppers: Mattress Toppers
Read Dr. Breus’ latest book: Sleep, Drink, Breathe (2024)
Explore all of Dr. Breus’ books: Other books
Join The Sweaty Pillow Community here
Connect with The Sweaty Pillow on Instagram @thesweatypillow
Find us on TikTok @the.sweaty.pillow
Connect with Lara Smith @laralusome
***The Sweaty Pillow Podcast provides general information only and is not medical advice. Consult your healthcare professional for any medical concerns. Information shared is not a substitute for professional medical guidance.***
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