You MUST listen if you want to:

• Learn how to generate value
• Understand how to pursue women while maintaining your overall purpose as a man
• Learn if there is such a thing as offering too much value

SHOW NOTES

• 1:10 Request to join our Facebook group, Todd V Insiders!
• 1:40 How do I generate instant value and validation?
• 3:10 How women respond differently to low-value guys vs. high-value guys
• 4:00 How building value is like winning a game of chess
• 7:30 Exact ways to garner attention and value at the start and through the course of an interaction
• 10:10 How to build value off of a mistake a girl makes
• 12:10 How to be a man of purpose while chasing women
• 17:00 Why being on the path toward high-value is valuable in and of itself
• 18:00 The important  difference between chasing WOMEN and chasing A WOMAN
• 19:50 Why working on yourself is a method of achieving freedom
• 20:35 Is there such a thing as offering too much value?
• 22:30 The pitfalls of offering unearned value

QUOTES

• “Every single bit of value you have opens up more possibilities for you to create more value.” (1:25)
• “Don’t undermine yourself. Don’t do any of those things that sabotage you and make you immediately lose the game” (7:10)
• “You want to come from the position that you are a high-value man offering something to the girl.” (14:00)
• “It’s okay to be a work in progress and it’s okay to be on your way to being more high-value than you are.” (17:50)
• “Working on yourself with women does not mean you are supplicating to the world of women.” (19:40)
• “Offering too readily, being too nice actually can backfire and lose you value.” (24:00)

CONNECT WITH TODD…

Take advantage of a limited time offer on Todd's upcoming live online event, Value Master Class: https://bit.ly/2M8xESA

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com

YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating

YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV

FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsiders

INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]

You MUST listen if you want to:

• Learn how to find a girl’s blueprint
• Understand why and how different women value different behaviors
• Become the most ATTRACTIVE and HIGH-VALUE version of yourself

SHOW NOTES

• 3:40 What is blueprint?
• 6:10 What is supplication and why do women find it unattractive?
• 9:35 An example of how to determine a girl’s blueprint on the fly
• 14:00 What are the specific details about a girl that determines her blueprint?
• 20:30 Means values vs. ends values
• 24:45 Why women’s views on value change based on the situation
• 26:30 Using blueprint to recognize patterns in game
• 29:15 How to use a girl’s blueprint to have the best interaction/relationship possible
• 33:45 How to use a girl’s blueprint to help her qualify

QUOTES

• “Just having information for information’s sake, just theory, isn’t actually technically of value. You need to be able to put it into practice in some way.” (1:25)
• “You’re going to do a better job of finding out a girl’s blueprint the more you can understand her, relate to her, and sympathize with her.” (3:15)
• “For most men, the problem they make is caring too much about what girls think about them and also bending over backward for girls too much already.” (6:00)
• “...but you can tell certain things about blueprint just from a glance oftentimes.” (9:30)
• “You’re going to go in with your best possible guess and then as new information arises you’re going to continually adjust your guess to that new information and that’s how you’re going to have an idea of what the girl’s blueprint is.” (13:50)
• “So if you were a smaller guy but you were able to give her that feeling of safety and social status, you would get that same emotional response that she would think would typically be reserved for a tall guy.” (21:35)
• “I’ll be talking to a girl and she’ll say or do something or a few things and it just clicks in my head that this is the exact blueprint of a girl I’ve dated before.” (27:10)
• “So there are different ways that I may convey what I do to different girls but fundamentally I’m still conveying to them the same job and the same life.” (32:15)
• "Blueprint should be used in a win-win way rather than in a win-lose way." (36:15)

CONNECT WITH TODD…

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com

YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating

YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV

FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsiders

INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]

You MUST listen if you want to:

• Have successful casual relationships
• Know why women love bad boys
• Convey high value the right way

Show Notes:

• What is value in a CASUAL (sex-only) relationship? [1:08]
• Why would a woman sleep with a drug dealer? [9:55]
• Why peacocking works [11:57]
• Flawed assumptions about the Lover vs Provider [16:29]
• How to convey high-value without upending your life [24:55]
• The Paradox of Value—how it can destroy your Game [31:40]

Quotes:

• “The sex itself and the genetic exchange itself is the primary value that a woman is getting from sex on a lot of levels.” [9:16]
• “In taking a risk, as long as you haven’t been punished for it, it actually makes you more attractive.” [13:30]
• “If the guy who she can get to stick around is also an incredibly high-value guy, that’s like winning the lottery for her.” [20:10]
• You do not have to be 21st century ‘high-risk’ in order to be 10th century BC attractive. [24:50]
• “Women don’t care that you’re flexing your muscles all the time. They care that you have the muscle.” [30:17]
• “Faking value only works to a point.” [36:42]

Connect with Todd:

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com

YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating

YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV

FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsiders

INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]

You MUST listen if you want to:

• Know what good Game is and why it works
• Understand why certain behaviors are high-value
• Deliver on the promise you make to a girl when you enter a relationship with her

Show Notes:

• How your words and behaviors reveal your value [2:20] 
• Why do people tease in the first place? [7:50] 
• The key behind high-value behaviors [12:40] 
• Deliver your lines with EMOTIONAL IMPACT [18:36] 
• What is value and how do you convey it? [20:16] 
• A flawed assumption about relationships after learning Game [22:08] 
• The Sunk Cost Effect and her fear of losing you [25:01] 
• STOP losing value in your relationships [27:47] 
• Why conveying value can only take you so far…[30:07] 
• These high-value traits will make you UNIVERSALLY ATTRACTIVE [31:37] 
• Can I just fake it till I make it? [33:33] 

Quotes:

• "Any Game that is recognized as Game is Bad Game." [5:45]
• "Game is essentially you having an interaction the way a high-value guy would." [6:31]
• Teasing is meant to make the interaction fun. It's meant to give you a way to express ideas without them being taken too seriously. [10:18] 
• "Every single time you open your mouth, you are saying a lot of things about yourself." [11:25]
• "It's very easy to lie with your words. It's a lot harder to lie with your actions." [13:21]
• "The initial interaction is about conveying value. The relationship is about delivering value." [30:18] 
• "Competence, being good at what you do and being capable at what you do, is almost universally a high-value trait." [32:02] 

Connect with Todd:

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com
YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating
YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV
FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsiders
INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]

Todd is back to answer your listener questions. He breaks down the role of sexual language in verbal escalation, how to establish an open relationship and the application of game to business. 

You MUST listen if you want to:

• Sexualize your conversations
• Create and sustain open relationships
• Leverage Game to succeed in business

Show Notes:

• Listener Question: Is explicitly talking about sex necessary? [1:48]
• Do you need to kiss the girl in Game? [3:05] 
• Why you need to take more risks [5:00]
• The best strategy to sexualize the interaction [7:27] 
• How to create your ideal relationship [13:00]  
• Listener Question: How to propose an open relationship? [15:07] 
• The key to maintaining an open relationship [19:00] 
• How men and women view infidelity differently--evolutionary psychology explanation [23:54] 
• Why an open relationship is GOOD for the girl [28:22] 
• Listener Question: How can I apply game principles to business? [33:27] 
• What is the foundation of any healthy relationship? [37:20]
• The secret to successful negotiation [40:10] 
• A Game Theory model for business and personal relationships [42:32] 

Quotes:

• “Always and never shouldn’t occur often in your discussion of Game.” [3:00] 
• “Almost any particular element of Game can be left out.” [4:40] 
• “The optimal [sexualization technique] is leading the conversation in a more sexual direction, and she’ll take up the reins and lead it further.” [11:48] 
• “The best way to have a particular type of relationship is to just start having it.” [14:00] 
• “A relationship is a contract of expectations.” [19:43] 
• “Typically she’s going to care a lot more about you spending your time, attention, and resources on a girl, than she would about you having a random hookup.” [27:02]
• “As soon as you’re in a relationship for the rules of the relationship, rather than the experience of the relationship, that tends to be a less healthy relationship.”[32:24] 
• “All relationships revolve around an exchange of value.” [34:50]
• “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.” -Zig Ziglar [45:20]

Connect With Todd:

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com

YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating

YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV

FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsiders

INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]

Resources Mentioned: 

The System – systembytodd.com

“The Moral Animal” by Robert Wright – amzn.to/MoralAnimal

“The Red Queen” by Matt Ridley – amzn.to/RedQueenBook

“Sperm Wars” by Robin Baker – amzn.to/SpermWarsBook

On Todd’s first podcast episode, he breaks down Verbal Game—clarifying what it is, explaining why it’s critical to success with women, and showing how to implement it immediately in your Game.

SHOW NOTES:

[01:05] What is Verbal Game?

[02:00] Why Todd likes Verbal Game

[02:21] The most uncontroversial controversial question you’ll ever hear

[04:05] “The Pickup Arts”

[04:35] Why men have trouble talking to women

[06:05] The best way to communicate with women

[07:04] The power of stories and humor with women

[08:57] Grey’s Anatomy shows the importance of emotional communication

[11:05] One of Todd’s all-time favorite quotes

[12:00] Why scripting can be effective

[13:02] The secret to effective, genuine Game

[16:07] What Verbal Game should be

[16:53] How to have excellent Verbal Game

[19:18] The core idea in Verbal Game

[21:07] Why make a Verbal Game program?

QUOTES:

[04:05] “The Pickup Arts is a performing art.” -Mystery 

[5:04] “Men tend to communicate more logically while women tend to communicate more emotionally.”

[6:50] “Almost anything you say can be communicated in a logical or an emotional way.”

[11:05] “The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter - 'tis the difference between the lightning-bug and the lightning.” -Mark Twain

[19:15] “Your core idea in Verbal Game is to do whatever you know and are comfortable with, and then try some tiny little bit [of Game] on top of it.”

[19:40] “These lines and formats are so powerful, even adding one of them into your Game, done the right way and at the right time, fundamentally changes the interaction.”

[22:00] “There is a system for each and every part of Game.”

[23:27] “While Verbal Game is simple, even easy once you get it, it’s not obvious.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Verbal Game Academy verbalgameacademy.com/

Submit a question: [email protected]

“Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” by John Gray https://bit.ly/MarsVenusBook

CONNECT WITH TODD:

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com

YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating

YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV

FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsiders

INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]