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What if the way you talk to yourself about your body is doing more damage than the food on your plate? In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, we dive into body image recovery after divorce, emotional eating, and the journey to self-love with guest Marla Mervis-Hartmann — coach, author, and body image expert.
Together, Erica and Marla unpack what it really means to love your body at every season of life, why willpower isn’t the answer, and how to rewire negative self-talk that keeps you stuck.
From breaking the cycle of emotional eating to finding compassion in the mirror, you’ll walk away with both mindset shifts and practical strategies to rebuild confidence, create food freedom, and actually enjoy the skin you’re in.
🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 Intro
05:00 Extreme weight loss, rebuilding health, and gym life
08:00 The trap of diet culture & addiction to control
12:00 Emotional eating as a coping mechanism
18:00 Food as rebellion, control, and teenage risks
21:00 Self-sabotage, fear of failure, and food/alcohol cycles
25:00 Finding the “third road” between indulgence & restriction
30:00 Modeling body love for our kids
36:00 Liking vs. loving your body & joyful movement
42:00 Marla’s book, programs & free course resources
44:00 Takeaway: find one thing you love about yourself this week
🌟 Resources & LinksThe Club: A Divorce Community
A new online space to help you get clear, get grounded, and move forward. Whether you’re unhappily married or taking your first steps through divorce, The Club is your space to heal and grow.
👉 Grab your spot now
Connect with Marla
🌟 TEDx Talk: The Secret Ingredient to Feeling Good in Your Body
🌟 Free Course: Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Eating
🌟 Facebook: Love Your Body Love Yourself | Marla Mervis
🌟 Instagram: @loveyourbodyloveyourselfalways
🌟 Website: loveyourbodyloveyourself.com
🌟 YouTube: Marla Mervis
🌟 Book: BE-Friend Yourself on Amazon | Book Website
Connect with Erica
🌟 Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub
🌟 Facebook: The Crazy Ex-Wives Club
🌟 Website: thecrazyexwivesclub.com
By Erica Bennett4.9
2020 ratings
What if the way you talk to yourself about your body is doing more damage than the food on your plate? In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, we dive into body image recovery after divorce, emotional eating, and the journey to self-love with guest Marla Mervis-Hartmann — coach, author, and body image expert.
Together, Erica and Marla unpack what it really means to love your body at every season of life, why willpower isn’t the answer, and how to rewire negative self-talk that keeps you stuck.
From breaking the cycle of emotional eating to finding compassion in the mirror, you’ll walk away with both mindset shifts and practical strategies to rebuild confidence, create food freedom, and actually enjoy the skin you’re in.
🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 Intro
05:00 Extreme weight loss, rebuilding health, and gym life
08:00 The trap of diet culture & addiction to control
12:00 Emotional eating as a coping mechanism
18:00 Food as rebellion, control, and teenage risks
21:00 Self-sabotage, fear of failure, and food/alcohol cycles
25:00 Finding the “third road” between indulgence & restriction
30:00 Modeling body love for our kids
36:00 Liking vs. loving your body & joyful movement
42:00 Marla’s book, programs & free course resources
44:00 Takeaway: find one thing you love about yourself this week
🌟 Resources & LinksThe Club: A Divorce Community
A new online space to help you get clear, get grounded, and move forward. Whether you’re unhappily married or taking your first steps through divorce, The Club is your space to heal and grow.
👉 Grab your spot now
Connect with Marla
🌟 TEDx Talk: The Secret Ingredient to Feeling Good in Your Body
🌟 Free Course: Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Eating
🌟 Facebook: Love Your Body Love Yourself | Marla Mervis
🌟 Instagram: @loveyourbodyloveyourselfalways
🌟 Website: loveyourbodyloveyourself.com
🌟 YouTube: Marla Mervis
🌟 Book: BE-Friend Yourself on Amazon | Book Website
Connect with Erica
🌟 Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub
🌟 Facebook: The Crazy Ex-Wives Club
🌟 Website: thecrazyexwivesclub.com

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