Turns Out I'm Into It!

For many people, the idea of seeing their partner in the arms of another person is to painful to even imagine… but for Slade and I, we were pretty excited about it! 

In this episode, I recount all the juicy details for you, about what this recent experience was like, how the opportunity came about, as well as some insights into the positives of an open relationship.

Also in this episode, discover a helpful way to communicate desires and boundaries with a new partner (especially for those of us who are a bit shy), as well as how you can start your very own "F*ckit List!"

All this and so much more in this week's episode of Turns Out I'm Into It.

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Last week's chat on Objectification got some super interesting responses! So I decided to go even deeper into this topic today and add some of YOUR comments to this conversation. 

Objectification is such an interesting topic, because despite its negative connotations, it is a suuuuper common desire and can be extremely validating for people of all genders and roles! 

Later in the episode I discuss how “sexy” can be found in all sorts of things - from kneading pastry to scary monsters. I share a personal story about a very non-sexy movie scene that got my motor running! 

Whatever you’re into, chances are you're not alone! So it’s time to let go of shame and explore your unique desires, in this latest episode of Turns Out I'm Into It!

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Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23 for 25% discount
• Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PHD and Celeste Hirschman MA (book)

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We are taught that sex is all about having an orgasm, but there is sooooo much more to it!  Great sex is about all the wonderful and complex feelings we get to experience during that play. Whether you like to feel adored, desirable, worshiped, dominant, or you like to feel submissive, degraded and humiliated - all of these feelings are valid, healthy, and super fun ways to play! 

In this episode, I go into detail about some of the feelings I like to get in my CNC fantasies, including objectification, confinement, and feeling out of control, as well as explore where those desires come from. Hold on to your earbuds friends, because this episode doesn’t hold back! Discover more about yourself and kinky desires than ever before!

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Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23
• Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PHD and Celeste Hirshman MA (book)
• Why I want you to see me naked (Fetlife blog post)
• See my face photo and show your support! 

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Privacy is a big deal in the kink world, and it’s important to be sure you are comfortable with whatever you choose to share about yourself. Once it’s out there, it's very difficult to take back! 

That said, sharing my face on my Fetlife profile is something I’ve been thinking about for a long time, and have come to the decision that it’s the right choice for me. In this episode, I share with you about my decision making process, which may be helpful for you when deciding how you want to go about your kink lifestyle. It is very easy to get caught up in other people's opinions, and for this reason we need to check in with ourselves regularly and make sure we are playing by our rules and no one else's. 

I hope you enjoy this episode. I plan on sharing this face photo once this episode goes live. If you’d like to show your support, feel free to click through to my profile using the link above. 

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Being in charge might look easy, but the role of a Dom is anything but. In this episode I interview my Dom / partner Slade about his journey as a Dom in kink, uncovering some of the challenges and lessons learned in our 2 years together. 

We cover lots of topics including how Slade has overcome feelings of shame around his dominant desires (something a lot of men struggle with). We also discuss the importance of communication and aftercare for both partners, as well as managing decision fatigue during a BDSM scene. 

If you are a Dom or a Switch currently navigating your way in kink, this episode is jam packed with useful advice. Similarly, if you are a submissive, you may find this episode helpful in understanding your Doms perspective. 

This is the first interview style episode I’ve done for this podcast, and I’m super excited to share it with you! Any questions of comments, please reach out to me through the contact information below. 

• Feeld - kink dating app. 

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Some kinks are playful and fun, like being spoilt with attention, or bathed in chocolate sauce. But what about the less empowering ones… what if you’re turned on by r*pe fantasies and degradation…? 

In this episode I am finally able to answer the question “Are my kinks healthy?” And the answer is most likely yes. Though the reasons behind that answer are suuuuuper interesting!

If you are struggling to accept your kinky side, or you’re maybe a little afraid of it, or maybe you’re simply fascinated by kink psychology, this episode is for you! Join me for the next episode of Turns Out I’m into it, and let’s take another deep dive into the wonderful world of kink! 

• Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PhD and Celeste Hirschman MA (book)

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Sex is a fundamental human need, yet in modern society, it is a topic deemed “inappropriate” in most settings, especially if the sex you desire is anything outside the vanilla. This lack of conversation around sex, leads to poor information, poor communication with sexual partners, and ultimately… an unfulfilling sex life. 

In this episode I explore how sex and kink is consistently shamed in our society. I give examples of how even indirect messaging has led to unconscious judgments in my own mind. I also talk about ways to let go of these judgements and start feeling more confident about having kinky conversations.

• Guardian article: The Guardian, 2014, Sex in real life isn't like sex on screen – and that's a good thing, viewed 7th June 2023, https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/mar/18/sex-real-life-not-like-sex-on-screen-tv-movies  

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I’ve got an exciting episode today! Last week I told you I was planning an upcoming impact play scene at a private party… well this week you get to hear all about how that went! I share all the details about what naughty shenanigans took place, so you can get an honest insight into what an experience like this is actually like. 

For anyone wanting to play at home, I give you my top takeaways to having a positive BDSM experience. From managing nerves, to what to look for in a Dominant partner, to subspace and aftercare - it’s all here. If you are wanting to have your own BDSM experience (or you're just super curious to peek behind the curtain) then you don’t want to miss this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It! 

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In today’s episode I share with you why this podcast was immediately banned from Instagram and Facebook (spoiler alert… it’s kind of infuriating). I also share about how I’ve been doing a deep dive into my kinks and discovering new things about myself through making a kink vision board! Sounds super weird I know, but hear me out! You might like to try it too…

Lastly, I talk openly about how I have been negotiating an Impact Play scene with a new play partner. It’s a little more formal than I’m used to, but I’m into it! 

If you are loving this podcast then please help me out by subscribing and leaving a rating and review. Those things make a huge difference to a new podcast like this one, and are much appreciated

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In this episode of "Turns Out I'm Into It," host Harley Rabbit delves into self-acceptance in kink. Through sharing her personal experiences, Harley explores the ways in which shame and self-doubt can hold us back, and how learning to accept our kinky selves (no matter how weird and wonderful) can lead to more fulfilling relationships and experiences.

Harley shares openly about how this journey allowed her to finally stop hiding, and find a community who understood this kinky side of her personality. Along the way, she offers practical advice and tips for listeners who may be struggling to come to terms with their own kinks and fetishes, and are still learning how to fly their own freak flag proudly.

• Every Tool’s a Hammer - Book by Adam Savage

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