‘Free use’ is a kink that has been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately - which is causing a lot of people to feel curious about what it means, and others to feel concerned about why anyone would want to play like this.

In this episode, I provide some answers about the many faces of Free Use. Like lots of kinks, there are many ways to experiment with and enjoy this kink, and this may look very different for different people. I also address some of the valid concerns about the type of behaviour Free Use appears to be promoting, particularly when it is shared out of context on mainstream social media. 

Mentioned in this episode

• ‘Used’ - Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasy - use the coupon code INTOIT
• Taylor.M (2023), What’s the ‘Free Use’ Fetish and Why’s Everyone Talking About it?, Vice.com, accessed 09/10/23, https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3wn3x/whats-the-free-use-fetish-and-whys-everyone-talking-about-it 
• The Erotic Mind -  by Jack Mortin, Ph.D (book)

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Did you know, the threesome is the most common sexual fantasy, across different genders and sexual orientations? Rarely is anything to do with what turns us on, ever so universal…so let’s talk about that.

In this episode I give a real-life account of my recent threesome experience. I share openly about everything from asking the right person, identifying potential triggers, getting in the right headspace - all the way up to aftercare. 

Everyone deserves to experience their fantasy if they want to, and this has been one of mine for years! Join the fun, and enjoy this latest episode of Turns Out I’m Into It! 

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• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use code: INTOIT
• Harley Rabbit Newsletter Sign Up 
• The Erotic Mind -  by Jack Morin, Ph.D (book)

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I get a lot of great questions in my inbox, so I thought it was about time I did a Q&A episode on this podcast. Today I discuss some of the most common kinky questions I get asked, from how to establish boundaries, how to communicate your desires with your partner, where to get started with objectification, as well as lots more! 

If you have a question you’d like me to answer either privately or on the show, you can msg me on Fetlife or through my website (links below). 

Mentioned in this episode

Harley Rabbit Newsletter Sign Up 

The Case of the Harry Potter Pajamas (episode about Age Play)

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There are a lot of misconceptions around D/s relationships, which on the surface can look as though they are perpetuating a culture of misogyny. This however, is not the case. In this episode, we dive a little deeper into the dynamics of healthy BDSM relationships, and discuss how they in fact, align with feminist values. 

If you, like many submissive women (and dominant men) ever feel conflicted about your values around equality for all genders, and what you enjoy in the bedroom, I hope this episode can help reconcile this for you. It is my firm belief that female submission and feminism can and do exist in harmony, and there is no reason to have to suppress either identity. 

Mentioned in this episode

• Tied and Taken - Erotic Meditation (Free)
• Harley Rabbit Newsletter Sign Up 
• Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PHD and Celeste Hirshman MA (book)
• Meeker, Carolyn, et al. “Navigation of Feminist and Submissive Identity by Women in the BDSM Community: A Structured Literature Review.” Sexuality & Culture, vol. 5, no. 24, 4 Dec. 2019, https://doi.org/10.1007/s12119-019-09681-9. 

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This week I tried being a cam girl! If you’re curious to know what it’s like to get naked on a livestream then you will love this episode! 

I am all about living by my values of sex positivity, body confidence, challenging social stigma, and freedom of sexual expression. Camming to me, felt like a way to fully exemplify those values. That said, it wasn’t all smooth sailing, and the whole experience was a bit of a rollercoaster! 

If you’d like to hear a bonus video where I share even deeper about this experience, you can access that for free on the backstage tab of my website. Links below. 

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT
• Harley Rabbit Newsletter Sign Up 
• Harley Rabbit Backstage

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This week's episode is all about making things happen! No more “someday” goals people, I want you to pick a date, make a plan, and start living your best sex life! 

Don’t worry, I’m going to be right there alongside you. To get you motivated, I have set my own kink goal, and over the course of the next few months. On this podcast, I’ll be sharing each step of my journey, so you can see how it’s done.

Today we are starting with choosing a goal, visualizing yourself achieving that goal (so you can get nice and excited!), then mapping out the steps involved to make it happen. Oh and most importantly - setting some milestone dates. 

If you want to stop dreaming and start living your best sex life, this is the episode for you! 

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT
• Harley Rabbit Newsletter Sign Up 
• Bondage Tuition Youtube
• Rope365.com

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It might all look happy and confident on the surface, but the reality is, social media (including Fetlife!) isn’t the best place for our self esteem. I’m not telling anyone to stop using these platforms - I actually think they do a lot of good as well, but when scrolling your feed, it’s important to be aware of how it’s affecting you. 

In this episode I talk about the 3 most common pitfalls we all fall into on social media, including Upward Comparison, FoMo and the Low Self Esteem Cycle. I give you an honest behind the scenes look at what Fetlife is like for me, and I do my best to suggest some small changes you can make, to make your Fetlife experience a more positive one. 

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT
• Harley Rabbit Newsletter Sign Up 
• Fetlife Writing by Mr_Hieronymus

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In this episode I talk about my journey with Age Play. This is one of the more divisive kinks in BDSM and it was a form of play I used to be very uncomfortable with. Overtime, through exploring this kink slowly with my partner, I have been able to understand Age Play a lot better, and my little self has now become an important part of my kink identity. 

What all this has to do with Harry Potter Pj’s you ask? Well you’ll have to listen to the episode to find out why this was such a pivotal moment in my Age Play exploration. 

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23
• Wish  - Place to buy cheap onesies / rompers
• Little For Big - Place to buy good quality onesies (and other age play things)

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I don't think this was quite what the fairy godmother had in mind, but I had a great night out at the Townsville Erotic Ball! This was a big event for our regional North Queensland community and brought in awesome humans from all over the state! 

In this episode I tell you all about my experience at this event. I’m talking sexy costumes, traffic light wristbands and fire twirling entertainment! I also get pretty real about the less glamorous side of being social, including feeling awkward and like a bit of an outsider at times (we all feel this, you’re not alone!). 

Lastly, is there really a divide between Swingers and Kinksters? Are they basically the same thing? Or should you be picking sides?! Find out on this week’s episode of Turns Out I’m Into It! 

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT
• Red Hot Pie - Swingers app / website
• SHEIN - Cheap sexy clothes

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I’ve got an extra special deep-dive episode for you today, where I interview Persephony Falls. Persephony is one of the first people I met in kink. She is a self professed Sadomasochist, has more than 15 years experience in kink, and she is heavily involved in the Townsville kink community organising the local sub-munches here. 

In this episode we cover everything from kinky Greek mythology, advice for newbies, and go in depth into Persephony’s love of pain (seriously, she casually mentions taking 500 strikes of a cane like it’s no big deal!). 

Quick disclaimer, if you’re squeamish, we do get into a good chat about needles in the second half of this episode, so feel free to tune out if that feels like too much for you. But if you're curious about this lesser known branch of BDSM then “stick” around!

Lastly, please don’t try any of this stuff at home without doing your own thorough research!

Mentioned in this episode

• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23

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• Website: harleyrabbit.com/podcast 
• Fetlife: HarleyRabbit
• Fetlife: PersephonyFalls

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