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What is Sleep Play? Well, Sleep Play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in sexual activity with them. 

For some people, this sounds super creepy! But for others, there are lots of great reasons why Sleep Play can be a fantastic turn on! 

In this episode we will discuss how Sleep Play may look very different for different people, as well as give you the tools to discuss this kink with your partner(s).

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• HarleyRabbit audio fantasy In the Dark - Her POV
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• HarleyRabbit 25% off discount code “SLEEPY” available this week only!

Sources

• Deehan, E. T., & Bartels, R. M. (2023). A Qualitative Exploration of Sleep-Related Sexual Interests: Somnophilia and Dormaphilia. Sexual Abuse, 35(3), 288-312. https://doi.org/10.1177/10790632221098359
• The Erotic Mind - by Jack Morin PhD

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Have you ever found it challenging to utter that two-letter word, "no"? 

In this episode, I discuss the reasons why saying "no" can be an uphill battle for so many people. I also explore the important role personal boundaries play in nurturing not only your self-worth but also the health of your relationships.

I will give you five of my personal favorite strategies to make saying "no" more manageable. This is particularly tailored for those who identify as people-pleasers, like me!

My mission is for you to leave this episode not only understanding the challenges of saying "no" but also armed with the confidence and skills to assert your boundaries effectively when the situation calls for it.

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• HarleyRabbit audio fantasy Tied and Taken
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Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and that meaning can be very different depending on the person.

I asked the community on Fetlife to tell me what collars mean to them - and I got some wonderful responses which I share in today's discussion. From a simple fashion accessory, to a way to shift into a submissive headspace, to a symbol of the D/s dynamic - collars can mean a lot of different things!

There really is a lot more to collars and ownership than what appears on the surface, so today we dig deep into the rabbit hole, and find out what makes collars so important in the kink community!

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• Backstage video: www.harleyrabbit.com/backstage
• Episode 24: What’s so Good About a Threesome?
• Steel collar purchased from hardrrr.com
• Fetlife writing “‘Collared’ & ‘Owned’ to me mean Freedom” by VictoriaCage.

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‘Free use’ is a kink that has been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately - which is causing a lot of people to feel curious about what it means, and others to feel concerned about why anyone would want to play like this.

In this episode, I provide some answers about the many faces of Free Use. Like lots of kinks, there are many ways to experiment with and enjoy this kink, and this may look very different for different people. I also address some of the valid concerns about the type of behaviour Free Use appears to be promoting, particularly when it is shared out of context on mainstream social media. 

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• ‘Used’ - Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasy - use the coupon code INTOIT
• Taylor.M (2023), What’s the ‘Free Use’ Fetish and Why’s Everyone Talking About it?, Vice.com, accessed 09/10/23, https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3wn3x/whats-the-free-use-fetish-and-whys-everyone-talking-about-it 
• The Erotic Mind -  by Jack Mortin, Ph.D (book)

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Did you know, the threesome is the most common sexual fantasy, across different genders and sexual orientations? Rarely is anything to do with what turns us on, ever so universal…so let’s talk about that.

In this episode I give a real-life account of my recent threesome experience. I share openly about everything from asking the right person, identifying potential triggers, getting in the right headspace - all the way up to aftercare. 

Everyone deserves to experience their fantasy if they want to, and this has been one of mine for years! Join the fun, and enjoy this latest episode of Turns Out I’m Into It! 

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• The Erotic Mind -  by Jack Morin, Ph.D (book)

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I get a lot of great questions in my inbox, so I thought it was about time I did a Q&A episode on this podcast. Today I discuss some of the most common kinky questions I get asked, from how to establish boundaries, how to communicate your desires with your partner, where to get started with objectification, as well as lots more! 

If you have a question you’d like me to answer either privately or on the show, you can msg me on Fetlife or through my website (links below). 

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The Case of the Harry Potter Pajamas (episode about Age Play)

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There are a lot of misconceptions around D/s relationships, which on the surface can look as though they are perpetuating a culture of misogyny. This however, is not the case. In this episode, we dive a little deeper into the dynamics of healthy BDSM relationships, and discuss how they in fact, align with feminist values. 

If you, like many submissive women (and dominant men) ever feel conflicted about your values around equality for all genders, and what you enjoy in the bedroom, I hope this episode can help reconcile this for you. It is my firm belief that female submission and feminism can and do exist in harmony, and there is no reason to have to suppress either identity. 

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• Tied and Taken - Erotic Meditation (Free)
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• Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PHD and Celeste Hirshman MA (book)
• Meeker, Carolyn, et al. “Navigation of Feminist and Submissive Identity by Women in the BDSM Community: A Structured Literature Review.” Sexuality & Culture, vol. 5, no. 24, 4 Dec. 2019, https://doi.org/10.1007/s12119-019-09681-9. 

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This week I tried being a cam girl! If you’re curious to know what it’s like to get naked on a livestream then you will love this episode! 

I am all about living by my values of sex positivity, body confidence, challenging social stigma, and freedom of sexual expression. Camming to me, felt like a way to fully exemplify those values. That said, it wasn’t all smooth sailing, and the whole experience was a bit of a rollercoaster! 

If you’d like to hear a bonus video where I share even deeper about this experience, you can access that for free on the backstage tab of my website. Links below. 

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• Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT
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• Harley Rabbit Backstage

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This week's episode is all about making things happen! No more “someday” goals people, I want you to pick a date, make a plan, and start living your best sex life! 

Don’t worry, I’m going to be right there alongside you. To get you motivated, I have set my own kink goal, and over the course of the next few months. On this podcast, I’ll be sharing each step of my journey, so you can see how it’s done.

Today we are starting with choosing a goal, visualizing yourself achieving that goal (so you can get nice and excited!), then mapping out the steps involved to make it happen. Oh and most importantly - setting some milestone dates. 

If you want to stop dreaming and start living your best sex life, this is the episode for you! 

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• Bondage Tuition Youtube
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It might all look happy and confident on the surface, but the reality is, social media (including Fetlife!) isn’t the best place for our self esteem. I’m not telling anyone to stop using these platforms - I actually think they do a lot of good as well, but when scrolling your feed, it’s important to be aware of how it’s affecting you. 

In this episode I talk about the 3 most common pitfalls we all fall into on social media, including Upward Comparison, FoMo and the Low Self Esteem Cycle. I give you an honest behind the scenes look at what Fetlife is like for me, and I do my best to suggest some small changes you can make, to make your Fetlife experience a more positive one. 

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• Fetlife Writing by Mr_Hieronymus

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