Alongside their first in person guest, Irene C. , Stephanie and Travis discuss “the patriarchy”, and make an argument for just throwing the whole phrase “submissive women” in the trash. There were so many comments about Stephanie misinterpreting the phrase, but in reality, it seems as if people are just redefining it, when they can just not use the term at all. Language is important! This weeks “Oh So Y’all Can Relate” has us exploring the friend zone and “finger penises”. Is he just not that into her? Or is he ashamed of his package? You help us decide. Finally, they all dig deep to discuss all the layers that are interconnected within their identity. They talk candidly about how blackness and anti-blackness has impacted their own self acceptance and their professional life. They acknowledge privileges tied to how they show up in the world. Privileges tied to skin color, being thin, speaking Spanish, and being a man.

This week Stephanie and Travis dive into listener submitted topics. Can your partner have friends of the opposite sex? Can your partner be friends with someone they had an intimate relationship with in the past? Can a relationship in which a woman makes more money work? Does it matter when the woman started to make more? What does it mean to be a submissive woman in a relationship? Does the definition match men’s expectations? Do women want to be submissive or do they feel they have to be, in order to be loved? If this episode was engaging and you’d like our take on other relationship topics, please shoot us a DM on Instagram.

This week Stephanie and Travis touch on the over consumption of clothing. Stephanie spent the week decluttering and thinking about how to shift her thinking and habits around fashion. They briefly reflect on what they remember from 9.11.01. Coincidentally they were both in gym class. (They were fated haha) This weeks Oh So Y’all Can Relate submission, weighs in on “should family come first? Before your partner?” Lastly, we answer 12 Q and A’s submitted to us via our Instagram. Travis learns what a pillow princess is, discusses Stephanie’s “blood lasagna”, and being there to hug Stephanie while she pee’s. Not weird at all.

It’s been a long week at home for Stephanie and Travis. They had their first guest on the same night Hurricane Ida ripped through New York and New Jersey. Their talk with Cindy of Zero Based Budget led to a week of them reflecting on their financial goals. Rent was due, hey first of the month. This got us reaching out to our audience about how rent is split in their household. We discuss the 50/50 way, the percentage way, who takes up more space, and lastly when one partner pays for everything.

Stephanie and Travis finally talk about their “conversation” a couple of weeks ago that had Stephanie on edge during episode 008. They share hard to swallow truths about their financial struggles and the reality of becoming a one income household. At a time they desperately need a financial reset, they invite financial expert Cindy Zuniga-Sanchez, founder of Zero Based Budget Coaching LLC to discuss financial literacy. Cindy has created a financial literacy program that she calls The Blueprint to Financial Freedom AKA your money BFF. She goes into detail about the value of her program, her unique voice in the world of finance, as well as tips for anyone looking for ways to get their partner on board with creating a path to financial success.

Travis and Stephanie address Stephanie’s tense and spicy mood last episode. They also make a MAJOR life update/announcement. Do you know that couple that stays together only because they have already spent numerous years together? Are you in that situation? Listen to what Stephanie has to say about that. Do you have a guilty pleasure of watching cringe TV? Well we sorta do and are giving Bachelor in Paradise a try. Stephanie and Travis discuss it this episode and will be watching live Monday’s at 8pm and sharing their reactions on Instagram stories @WeStillLikeEachOther

Is Sex Work “real” work? Is there a level of jealousy that plays into the hate people give sex workers? What exactly did OnlyFans announce? Who does it impact the most? What implications will this have on sex workers? Travis and Stephanie get into a heated debate about sex work, morality, social expectations and shaming. Why is working a 9-5 with people you hate, making less than you deserve more acceptable than selling sex?

New episode on a Thursday, because why not? WE HAD TO dig deeper into how we manage our relationship and parenting. Our marriage takes priority, because our child benefits greatly when we are in tune. It’s a trickle down effect. Join us as we talk about parenting while maintaining healthy boundaries, establishing and maintaining respect, and not obsessing over being the best parents ever.

This week Stephanie and Travis take it back, way back to reflect on how their childhood and upbringing influenced their ideas on marriage, money, and sex. A real therapy session for real. Stephanie put that undergrad psych degree to work. On “Media Love” they pay homage to one of their favorite podcast Whoreible Decisions, and reflect on the relationship dynamic of their latest guest, a young married couple with a new born baby. Oh and what is an Inter-intimate relationship?

This week Stephanie and Travis brought the heat: Sex and Relationships.When you aren’t communicating, you make false assumptions and shit can go bad quick! Stephanie and Travis battled with intimacy for a while. Now that they have overcome those challenges they are sharing their experience for those who can relate and learn from it. On “Oh So Y’all Can Relate” we dive into how important it is for your partner to share some of the same interest as you. As well as how at times, someone’s outside appearance does not match their at home appearance. These bad dates are memorable to say the least.