Most men lack a certain “skill” that explains many relationship and dating problems modern men have. It explains anxiety before and during dates, emotional isolation when you lose intimacy over time, and it even explains why couples have so many arguments. 

The skill? 

Presence. 

But the problem is, most men think presence only means physical presence. But it means so much more than that. In fact, presence is the key skill to strengthen the bond between partners, enhance your emotional intimacy, build trust, solve conflicts (and de-escalate rising conflicts), and build lasting attraction. 

So, how do you build presence? And what does it actually mean? 

In today’s show, you’ll discover why presence makes or breaks a relationship, simple exercises you can follow to increase your presence, and how being more present will give you and your partner more joy and fulfillment from your relationship. 

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• The single most important trait for generating deep connections, lasting attraction, and loving intimacy (0:48) 
• Why many couples today feel isolated and alone (even when they’re together) (1:57) 
• How to give any woman her ultimate fantasy on your first date together (4:34) 
• 4 ways to practice presence throughout life and build a lasting intimacy with your partner (6:46) 
• The one thought almost all dating guys have that makes it impossible to be present in the moment (10:07) 
• How presence taps into your girlfriend’s or wife’s biggest fantasy and creates “emotional contagion” (10:39) 
• Want to get better with women but can’t get out of your own head? This simple “replace the dialogue” exercise instantly makes you more present with women (16:35) 
• Do you tend to get anxious before or during a date? Here’s a client story that reveals how to finally overcome this (19:29) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I’ve helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I’m therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

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