8 Signs Men Give Before They Cheat (& Most Women Miss)  Cheating is not something couples want to think about but it’s worth exploring from a how-can-we-prevent-this-from-happening point of view. When you’re in a committed relationship with your partner, you are committed to building a future together. Fidelity is an important component of any relationship […]

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Most Important Question To Ask Him Before Sleeping Together  After my years as a dating coach and human behavior observer, I honestly believe that hookups have replaced the intentional desire for a relationship. So many people are stuck in the immediate gratification that good sex can give them and they move from partner to partner […]

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Men Respect Women When THIS Happens  Many women (not all) have fallen into the common pattern of blaming men for whatever is not going right in their lives. Everything from ‘there are no good men to date’ to ‘my boss has it out for me’. While it may feel good to have a scapegoat to […]

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Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women  If you have followed me for any length of time, you know that I talk about emotional availability quite often. What seems like a simple concept is actually quite complex and it can make or break a relationship. When a man is emotionally available or emotionally mature, […]

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When He Misses You, It Means These 3 Things  I’m not gonna lie…men only hunt for their next sexual partner. Men are NOT hunting for a relationship. If they learn from others in their life how to have a monogamous relationship, then that’s the best of both worlds – finding a sexual partner who satisfies […]

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When He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in Mind  Which group do you fall into: Group 1, where you lean back and enjoy your dating journey and see where things go. Or Group 2, where you worry about every little nuance of the dating process. There’s no right or wrong answer; it’s more of […]

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He’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing This  Do you ever get tired of making decisions? Between your work, friends, and children, I’ll bet by the end of the day you don’t want anybody calling your name or asking you to make one more decision. The same is true of guys, […]

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3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible  Let’s talk about masculine and feminine energy for a moment. If you’re a longtime follower of mine, you know I don’t like the typical rhetoric surrounding these words when it comes to ‘energy.’ That’s because these different energies are often portrayed as being negative. However, let’s […]

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5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You  I tend to give men a hard time when it comes to dating because many men (not all!) are just bad dates. This tends to come from the way they were raised, often with the understanding that “boys don’t cry” or “men […]

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Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before) Get ready…you might not like what I have to say on this topic. If two people genuinely like each other and have respect for each other’s values, there’s no need to play the game of “making” him miss you. This strikes me as very manipulative, whether […]

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