What Would Love Do?

Are you different today from when you were in your 20s? Of course you are! Young people are concerned with settling down and starting a family. Whether marriage is involved in that scenario or not, raising children requires some sort of commitment between the parents.

Midlife people, on the other hand, most often are divorced, children are nearly grown, and they have more life experiences which may cloud their desires for commitment. While some midlife men might long to get remarried, some have no desire. Often those wants depend upon how amicable their divorce was. Even those who have been widowed might fear getting remarried as a betrayal of their deceased spouse.

Let’s explore the DEEPER the deeper reasons why commitment might be hard to come by with a midlife partner.

Let’s talk about…3 Reasons Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit (It’s Not You)

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Even though men and women are different, we both seem to use sex as a way to find love. But is sex really a strong basis for love or developing a relationship? Not usually. Even though I’m not here to preach about when to have sex, I do caution women who get attached very quickly to maybe hold off on having sex until you are comfortable with the man and understand what his real intentions are.

Often times when women jump into having sex, they are disappointed when the guy moves on or doesn’t seem as attached to having a relationship as they are. Understanding where you both are coming from FIRST can help you decide when (or if) to take that next step.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to connect with a man before having sex so you can build a solid foundation for a relationship.

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Like it or not, attraction is a huge part of relationships. Yes, we are all so much more than just looks alone, but attraction is what will bring new men into your life. Once the attraction is initiated, then you can wow him with your wit and intelligence. Being attracted to someone isn’t about vanity or shallowness; it’s natural human behavior.

However, attraction isn’t just physical; how you present yourself with your actions and words can also attract a man or push him away. And let’s do away with using reverse psychology and games to attract men. Being your authentic self will cut down on wasted dates and will attract men who are also tired of the games.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to attract men while being your authentic, high-value self.

Let’s talk about…5 Things High-Value Women NEVER Do With Men (These Kill His Attraction For You)

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Humans are a mysterious species. Just when you think you have that man figured out (or dating, in general) something throws a wrench into what you believed to be true and you’re left questioning why men do the things they do.

Hate to tell you but that’s how men feel about women, too! Which is why communication is so crucial in relationships. As you can probably guess from YOUR dating experience, no two situations are exactly the same because the people involved are different. The honeymoon phase is fun and filled with lust and lots of other emotions but learning how the other person thinks and feels is important, especially if you want the relationship to go further than just having fun.

Let’s explore the DEEPER myths about men and why having a willingness to discover what makes your partner tick can lead to a meaningful relationship.

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When we say someone is mature, we’re generally talking about a person’s overall persona. How they present themselves, how they speak, and how they act in social situations. Think of how a young child matures as they get older. They learn life lessons from their parents in order to become responsible adults.

But one thing that we don’t really teach children is about emotional maturity and how to relate to people on an emotional level instead of from a logical perspective. My favorite book on this topic is called The Four Agreements. I highly recommend that you read this WITH your partner – or the person you want to pursue a relationship with – so you can create a strong foundation for your relationship. The Four Agreements takes maturity and responsibility to a whole new level.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can build an emotionally mature relationship and to recognize if your man is ready for a commitment.

Let’s talk about…5 Signs He’s Emotionally Mature And Ready For Commitment

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I use the term “high value men” a lot and it simply refers to those men who truly care about women and finding their partner in life. They are the complete opposite of a ‘player’ who just wants to have fun with the first woman he sees. Ultimately, high value men are the most likely to enter into long-term relationships.

And when I say “feminine traits” this does NOT mean playing the dumb bimbo role! Nor does this mean sitting back and letting the man take the lead in the relationship…or even making simple decisions on where to go for dinner. But in the dating realm, that feminine term is used quite frequently to describe certain traits, so I’m using it here.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to naturally attract high-value men using your innate personality traits instead of playing a stereotypical gender role.

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We all know by now that most men don’t like to talk about their feelings. But we also know that the more women try to convince them to talk, the more they want to shut down and just ignore the situation, which infuriates women. It’s quite the vicious circle!

So I’m sharing these insecurities with you so that you can understand men better and you can also gauge how to approach them about having a conversation. Or deciding whether a conversation is even necessary. Please remember that insecurities bring up loads of emotions (think about your own insecurities) so approach these conversations with care.

Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons men shut down when encouraged to face their insecurities head on.

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Dating is challenging no matter what your age but midlife dating means we have to sort out all the stories that we’ve been telling ourselves over the years (many of which are untrue). And some people don’t believe in personal development, so their stories are sometimes harder to break through.

If you’re open to seeing dating through a different perspective, I’ll share with you what a “beginner’s mind” means and how it can help strip away the baggage, stereotypes, and emotional pain you might have associated with dating.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can enter the dating process with a beginner’s mind and shed the baggage and stereotypes associated with dating in general.

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Think of all the relationships in your life. From your family, friends and coworkers. Which relationships work for you and which ones don’t? Can you narrow down one or two reasons why a relationship does NOT work?

Did you say trust? Trust in ANY relationship is the basis on which you grow. Why do parents question their children so often? Because they know kids make stuff up and parents what to decipher truth from fiction. If you can’t trust a coworker to give you details or deadlines related to your project, how will you believe anything they say going forward? Trust between a couple who want a long term relationship is equally important.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways a couple can build trust together and some tips for deciphering when your man might be headed in the wrong direction.

Let’s talk about…7 Traits Of Trustworthy Men (What Every Woman MUST KNOW!)

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As we get older, we tend to get boring. Not everyone of course, but many people fall into a comfort zone with their partner and take them for granted. The early phase of a relationship is always exciting: somebody knew to learn about, new experiences and feelings.

But then we forget about the little things – like flirting – that are fun and make us feel good, knowing we’ve caught a special person’s eye. Why do we spend so much time in our inexperienced youth trying our hardest to flirt and forget about it as we get older and are more confident?

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways flirting can open up our minds to trying new things or just having some lighthearted fun with your partner.

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