When He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in Mind  Which group do you fall into: Group 1, where you lean back and enjoy your dating journey and see where things go. Or Group 2, where you worry about every little nuance of the dating process. There’s no right or wrong answer; it’s more of […]

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He’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing This  Do you ever get tired of making decisions? Between your work, friends, and children, I’ll bet by the end of the day you don’t want anybody calling your name or asking you to make one more decision. The same is true of guys, […]

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3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible  Let’s talk about masculine and feminine energy for a moment. If you’re a longtime follower of mine, you know I don’t like the typical rhetoric surrounding these words when it comes to ‘energy.’ That’s because these different energies are often portrayed as being negative. However, let’s […]

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5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You  I tend to give men a hard time when it comes to dating because many men (not all!) are just bad dates. This tends to come from the way they were raised, often with the understanding that “boys don’t cry” or “men […]

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Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before) Get ready…you might not like what I have to say on this topic. If two people genuinely like each other and have respect for each other’s values, there’s no need to play the game of “making” him miss you. This strikes me as very manipulative, whether […]

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Obvious Signs He’ll Never Commit…Even if He Loves You I’m going to make a generalization here that I find to be true based on my own dating experiences and with coaching clients: Women tend to view love from the fantasy or soap opera perspective. They think the man will ride in on a white horse, […]

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When is the Right Time to Sleep with a Guy? This seems to be an age-old question that never has a good or right answer. And it really depends on which perspective you have. If you enjoy the hook up or one-night stand culture, then you’ll argue it’s perfectly fine to have sex on the […]

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This Type of Pain Gets a Guy Addicted to You Are you tired of playing dating games? So many people – dating coaches included – think playing games will give you some insight into how a person feels about you. One of my contemporaries even suggested that you create conflict before your first date to […]

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5 Things that Kill Attraction You’ve been in the dating world long enough to know what behaviors or habits you don’t care for or that make a man less attractive to you. I would hazard to guess that you could probably make a long list of these detractors! But the opposite is also true…men can […]

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“NICE GIRL” Habits ALL WOMEN Must Break! What does the term “nice girl” mean to you? Do you fall back on the stereotype of the 1950s where the girls were meek and mild? Did they sit on the sidelines, waiting patiently for a man to sweep them off their feet into a life of raising […]

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