Hi Sis!

Episode 29 is where I talk about factors I have been able to identify as contributing to the decision to marry someone whom unknown to us was abusive. When the scales comes off our eyes and we start to see our prince charming was no where near charming and we have been deceived, we wonder why we never saw it coming.

This episode helps answer some of those questions.

With Love,

Ola

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Hey Sis!

One of the common signs of emotional abuse in the victim is an overall feeling of confusion and sometimes feeling just plain crazy.  Why does abuse have this effect? That's what I talk about on this episode. 

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Ola

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Hi Sis,

On today's show, I talk about one lingering thought that made it difficult for me to leave my abusive marriage and how I overcame that thought. 

Love,

Ola

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Hey sis!

In this episode I give you 3 keys to decode and know if those apologies are a true sign of repentance or just more deception to keep you stuck in a painful marriage.

With love!

Ola

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Hey Sis!

So in this episode, I talk about why God hates emotional abuse and how abuse robs us of the gifts of God. 

- How emotional abuse does so much harm

- It's not just about your spouse treating you badly, it's bigger than that

-What abuse has to do with the devil

- It's a battle of the thrones

With love!

Ola

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Hi Sis!

I know staying in an abusive marriage isn't healthy in the long term but there are times when an immediate exit isn't the best option even for the abused. How can an abused spouse "stay well" pending when they are able to exit safely? 

This episode discusses exactly that. 

Note: The tips shared on this episode is strictly for women who are not in physically violent relationships. If your spouse is physically violent, seek immediate help at your local domestic violence shelter/center. 

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Hi sis!

Today we are pointing out differences between a disappointing marriage and one that is just outright destructive.

According to Leslie Vernick, author of "The Emotionally Destructive Marriage", there are three components that are vital in a healthy adult relationship and when these three are lacking, the marriage is a destructive one. 

Today's episode takes a good look at  these three  components.

Be blessed as you listen,

Ola.

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Book featured on today's episode: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick

Hi Sis!

This episode is explores how emotional abuse differs from physical but can have more damaging and long-lasting effects. I also share my personal experience with emotional abuse and physical health. 

- Can emotional abuse lead to physical abuse?

- Does emotional abuse manifest physically in the body?

- Are the effects of emotional abuse limited only to mental sickness?

- Is there any scientific evidence that emotional abuse can lead to physical diseases?

Have an insightful time listening.

Love,

Ola.

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