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Why ‘Always Be Closing’ Is Killing Your Network [Social Intelligence Brief]
If you dread networking events, this episode explains why — and how to flip the script. AJ and Johnny break down the toxic "always be closing" mindset and show how high performers actually build deep connections that lead to real opportunity. Hear the story of Ryan, a client who 10x’d his sales by ditching the pitch and leading with value. You’ll learn how to use emotional intelligence, curiosity, and validation to become magnetic at any event — without chasing anyone.
[00:00:00] Why "closing the deal" is the wrong goal in social settings
[00:02:41] How Ryan turned things around by shifting his approach
[00:04:59] The 3 social habits that repel high-value connections
[00:07:26] A smarter way to approach networking events
[00:09:01] The role of validation and emotional bids in influence
[00:11:33] Why your intentions are more visible than you think
[00:13:18] Tactical relationship-building for introverts and pros alike
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Check in with AJ and Johnny!
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If you dread networking events, this episode explains why — and how to flip the script. AJ and Johnny break down the toxic "always be closing" mindset and show how high performers actually build deep connections that lead to real opportunity. Hear the story of Ryan, a client who 10x’d his sales by ditching the pitch and leading with value. You’ll learn how to use emotional intelligence, curiosity, and validation to become magnetic at any event — without chasing anyone.
[00:00:00] Why "closing the deal" is the wrong goal in social settings
[00:02:41] How Ryan turned things around by shifting his approach
[00:04:59] The 3 social habits that repel high-value connections
[00:07:26] A smarter way to approach networking events
[00:09:01] The role of validation and emotional bids in influence
[00:11:33] Why your intentions are more visible than you think
[00:13:18] Tactical relationship-building for introverts and pros alike
A Word From Our Sponsors
Tired of awkward handshakes and collecting business cards without building real connections? Dive into our Free Social Capital Networking Masterclass. Learn practical strategies to make your interactions meaningful and boost your confidence in any social situation. Sign up for free at theartofcharm.com/sc and elevate your networking from awkward to awesome. Don’t miss out on a network of opportunities!
Unleash the power of covert networking to infiltrate high-value circles and build a 7-figure network in just 90 days. Ready to start? Check out our CIA-proven guide to networking like a spy!
Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince—where high-end essentials meet unbeatable prices. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns.
Ready to turn your business idea into reality? Shopify makes it easy to start, scale, and succeed—whether you're launching a side hustle or building the next big brand. Sign up for your $1/month trial at shopify.com/charm.
Need to hire top talent—fast? Skip the waiting game and get more qualified applicants with Indeed. Claim your $75 Sponsored Job Credit now at Indeed.com/charm.
This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm
Stop needlessly overpaying for car insurance. Before you renew your policy, do yourself a favor—download the Jerry app or head to JERRY.com/charm
Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at www.rula.com/charm
Curious about your influence level?
Get your Influence Index Score today!
Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence.
Check in with AJ and Johnny!
AJ on LinkedIn
Johnny on LinkedIn
AJ on Instagram
Johnny on Instagram
The Art of Charm on Instagram
The Art of Charm on YouTube
The Art of Charm on TikTok
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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