Beyond Success

Why Bad Boys Attract Good Girls


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Good girls date men who are clearly “bad news.”

And even though most bad boys display blatant warnings and red flags, the allure of dating one is too strong for most good girls.

Why is that?

Well, for starters, looks, muscles, money, and even spontaneity is only part of the equation.

The other?

It’s all to do with the “unfinished business” in both his and her lives. And in today’s episode, I reveal the exact reason why good girls can be attracted to bad boys. 

Listen now!

Show Highlights Include:

  • 40-50% of first marriages end in divorce. Child support, crippling alimony payouts, and heartbreak. Here’s how to avoid a traumatic divorce (4:24)
  • Caught your wife cheating with a coworker? Here’s why that doesn’t necessarily mean a divorce (and why it actually could be a long, and passionate marriage) (10:59)
  • How to have a long lasting marriage by understanding the three stages every single marriage goes (11:55)
  • Why exciting, passionate sex in a marriage has very little to do with physical looks, but more so to do with your psychology (28:18)
  • In a bad fight with your wife or girlfriend? Here are five losing “strategies” that could push your marriage closer towards divorce (36:37)
  • Why good girls have so much sexual chemistry with bad boys (and why it’s partially her fault) (38:11)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ 

Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery

 

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