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As a therapist, boundaries coach, and cycle breaker herself, Torie shares the deeper truth behind these painful family dynamics: what really leads someone to end contact, how the media gets it wrong, and why accountability and power dynamics must be part of the conversation.
If you’ve ever been told you “abandoned” your family or felt judged for making the gut-wrenching decision to protect your peace, this episode will remind you that you’re not crazy — and that choosing yourself does not make you a selfish person.
We’ll cover:
Why “family estrangement” has become a loaded, stigmatizing term
The power imbalance between parents and adult children that not enough people are talking about
The truth about why cycle breakers go no contact — and why it’s never impulsive
How media narratives and even some therapists perpetuate shame
A more honest, hopeful way to talk about healing family relationships
Join here: https://www.confidentboundaries.com/private
And if you need more support with your own toxic parent, check out Confident Boundaries with Toxic Parents, Torie’s self-guided course that walks you step-by-step through setting boundaries, navigating guilt, and creating realistic strategies for dealing with toxic family dynamics.
When you enroll this week, you’ll also get her Holiday Survival Guide for free: a practical, trauma-informed roadmap for navigating the season with clarity and confidence.
Get immediate access at ConfidentBoundaries.com/course
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By Torie Wiksell4.6
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As a therapist, boundaries coach, and cycle breaker herself, Torie shares the deeper truth behind these painful family dynamics: what really leads someone to end contact, how the media gets it wrong, and why accountability and power dynamics must be part of the conversation.
If you’ve ever been told you “abandoned” your family or felt judged for making the gut-wrenching decision to protect your peace, this episode will remind you that you’re not crazy — and that choosing yourself does not make you a selfish person.
We’ll cover:
Why “family estrangement” has become a loaded, stigmatizing term
The power imbalance between parents and adult children that not enough people are talking about
The truth about why cycle breakers go no contact — and why it’s never impulsive
How media narratives and even some therapists perpetuate shame
A more honest, hopeful way to talk about healing family relationships
Join here: https://www.confidentboundaries.com/private
And if you need more support with your own toxic parent, check out Confident Boundaries with Toxic Parents, Torie’s self-guided course that walks you step-by-step through setting boundaries, navigating guilt, and creating realistic strategies for dealing with toxic family dynamics.
When you enroll this week, you’ll also get her Holiday Survival Guide for free: a practical, trauma-informed roadmap for navigating the season with clarity and confidence.
Get immediate access at ConfidentBoundaries.com/course
Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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