1. 2 types of ways to want it in the bedroom, and the differences between them

2. Why waiting for those “tingly feelings” can be a waste of energy

3. What science is teaching us about “getting in the mood”

4. How Janna has regular experiences while rarely being in the mood.

5. The 5 motivations for sex that don't involve a physical reason

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“Come as You Are” by Emily Nagoski

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