Beyond Success

Why Neediness Is Difficult To Overcome


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Every guy knows that neediness is the #1 most unattractive quality to women. But why then are so many guys still needy? 

Well, it’s hard for men to detect their own neediness. Women have evolved to detect neediness. And they’re experts at detecting it from your body language, your text messages, and even the tone of your voice. 

In this episode, you’ll discover the “hidden” neediness tells you’re using without even realizing it. 

Listen now and obliterate your neediness for good! 

Show Highlights Include:

  • Why women can detect your neediness before speaking one word to them (5:46) 
  • How the sound of your voice alone can either attract a horde of women or repulse them (7:34) 
  • Why your body language and tone of voice make up 93% of your attractiveness to women (11:33) 
  • How to land more dates with beautiful women by learning to read people better (14:30) 
  • 3 “secret” ways women detect your neediness (without you even realizing you’re being needy) (16:42) 
  • The weird way staying at your high-paying and high-static job demonstrates your neediness (18:59) 
  • The insidious “Do More Trap” needy guys fall into at the bar which nukes their chances of attracting women (20:57) 
  • How “red pill” dating tips actually make you needier (even if you think they make you more attractive) (24:13) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

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