I Wish You Knew

Why She Doesn’t Want You (Even If She Loves You) | Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist


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In this episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith sits down with Chad and Brittany to explore why love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship.

Whether you’re in a struggling relationship or trying to understand your partner better, this conversation will challenge the way you see emotional safety, communication, and connection.

Topics Covered:

👉 What led to the breakup: stress, avoidance, and nervous system overload
👉 How attachment theory began to shift their mindset
👉 Adam’s weekly check-in method for emotionally healthy relationships
👉 The rule of not withholding known feelings or concerns
👉 Why text communication helps anxious or overwhelmed partners
👉 How to rebuild trust through consistent positive experiences
👉 The COO/CEO model of emotional teamwork in relationships
👉 What to do when you don’t know how to fix a problem
👉 The importance of asking deeper, more vulnerable questions
👉 Building a legacy of emotional safety for your kids and grandkids
👉 Recognizing and reporting emotional unsafety as a core role in relationships

If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'STOP Doing These 3 Things If You Want Him to Commit'. Watch here:  https://youtu.be/vjVI7qgb2G4 

Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 

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