Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships

Why Some Sex Addicts Withhold Sex: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage


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In this episode, we dive into a listener question about a sex addict who withholds intimacy while engaging sexually with others. Many partners struggle with betrayal, confusion, and grief when their spouse avoids connection at home but seeks it elsewhere.


We explore the concept of intimacy anorexia, why addicts withdraw sexually, and what it might mean for the future of a marriage. Our discussion covers:

Recognizing patterns of sexual avoidance and betrayal

Understanding the emotional impact on the betrayed partner

How to approach healing and communication in complex relationships

The psychology behind why some partners “play married” instead of fully engaging

If you’ve ever felt sexless in your marriage, betrayed, or just confused about your partner’s behavior, this conversation is for you.

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