Beyond Success

Why Women Are Not Attracted To Needy Men


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Many men transform themselves to become more attractive to women: They excel in their careers, drive flashy cars, dress well, and get fit. Yet they stay lonely and only attract women for short-term flings or one-night stands.

If you’re struggling to build successful, lasting relationships, you don’t need to upgrade your lifestyle, wardrobe, or career, though those can help.

What you need the most is to become less needy.

Once you stop being needy, 99% of your dating problems evaporate and pave the way for a long-term relationship with a loving woman.

In this episode, you’ll find out exactly how to remove neediness from your life and create a lasting relationship.

Ready to attack your relationship struggles at the root? Listen now!

Show highlights include:

  • Why merely dressing better, getting fit, or growing your wealth won’t attract women if you’re still needy. (1:55)
  • How pickup tactics and seduction strategies are based on neediness (and will never create loving relationships) (4:08)
  • The evolutionary reason neediness is more unattractive than poverty, ugliness, and low status combined. (6:52)
  • The “stone age” reason you only attract gold diggers and shallow women (12:55)
  • Why pickup artists try to “bypass” neediness by pretending to be attractive (and how to eradicate neediness for good) (18:08)
  • How you signal your neediness to attractive women without saying a word (21:18)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

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