Beyond Success

Why "Work Hard, Play Hard" Destroys Your Relationships


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Work hard, play hard. 

It’s one of the most dangerous attitudes to adopt if you want a strong, fulfilling, and sexually active relationship. Many men try to party well into their 40’s, leaving their wife and child behind. They think their problems will disappear, and they can live the lifestyle of their 20’s.

But this only causes despair, anguish, anxiety, loneliness, and depression. 

In this episode, you’ll discover an ethical way to get your girlfriend to beg to go out on date nights, dress up for you, and have lots of passionate sex. You’ll also discover the counterintuitive way your tormenting family can actually unlock a longer lasting, deeper, and stronger relationship.

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Show highlights include: 

  • How single guys rob themselves of love, respect, and a 50 year long relationship by hyperfocusing on the next thing (1:45)
  • Why falling for the “one-and-done” myth repulses every woman you meet (3:42)
  • How working hard and playing hard leaves you depressed, lonely, and full of anxiety (and why slowing down unlocks unconditional love) (6:10)
  • An obvious coping mechanism that triggers your wife into an aggressive, nagging, and shrill person (14:53) 
  • Why you’ll never have a loving relationship with a woman if you continue living a “Peter Pan Lifestyle” (17:23)
  • Why conventional coaching represses your inner most wants wants and desires (and leaves you miserable) (19:56)
  • How to “ethically force” your girlfriend to beg to dress up for you , go out on date nights, and have lots of passionate sex (22:41) 
  • How you’ll slip into an unconscious pattern by moving back in with your parents (31:05)
  • The counterintuitive way your tormenting family can actually unlock a longer lasting, deeper, and stronger relationship (34:24)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

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