Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer are discussing people-pleasing. They cover signs that you’re a people-pleaser, how individuals develop these tendencies, why these patterns are hard to break, and offer tips for setting boundaries and prioritizing your needs. Plus, they share some shocking stories about how people-pleasing has impacted their own lives. 
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Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer are discussing people-pleasing. They cover signs that you’re a people-pleaser, how individuals develop these tendencies, why these patterns are hard to break, and offer tips for setting boundaries and prioritizing your needs. Plus, they share some shocking stories about how people-pleasing has impacted their own lives. For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer are discussing people-pleasing. They cover signs that you’re a people-pleaser, how individuals develop these tendencies, why these patterns are hard to break, and offer tips for setting boundaries and prioritizing your needs. Plus, they share some shocking stories about how people-pleasing has impacted their own lives.&nbsp;
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Kelsey:<a href="https://www.kelseycook.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer"> https://www.kelseycook.com</a>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener" rel="noopener noreferrer">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.

Why You Became A People-Pleaser

Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t,"&nbsp;Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple &amp; Spotify charts, and has been featured on&nbsp;Conan&nbsp;and&nbsp;The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless.&nbsp;​Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.​Hosted by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/host" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Delanie Fischer</a>, Co-Author of&nbsp;<a href="https://www.delaniefischer.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">MockTales</a>,&nbsp;Creative Activist,&nbsp;​​and resident homebody, Self-Helpless&nbsp;has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad.&nbsp;New episode every Monday!

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Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. ​ Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more. ​Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, ​​and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad.  New episode every Monday!

Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t,"&nbsp;Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple &amp; Spotify charts, and has been featured on&nbsp;Conan&nbsp;and&nbsp;The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless.&nbsp;​Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.​Hosted by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/host" rel="noopener noreferrer">Delanie Fischer</a>, Co-Author of&nbsp;<a href="https://www.delaniefischer.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">MockTales</a>,&nbsp;Creative Activist,&nbsp;​​and resident homebody, Self-Helpless&nbsp;has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad.&nbsp;New episode every Monday!

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