The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club

You Don’t Need Therapy, You Need to Be Heard (with Erin Snow)


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What if true healing after divorce didn’t come from therapy — but from finally being heard?

After divorce, you don’t always need therapy — you need to be heard. Erin Snow joins The Crazy Ex-Wives Club to reveal how listening can heal your heart.

In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, I sit down with Erin Snow, founder of Seacoast Listening Lounge, to explore how listening — not advice — can become the most powerful healing tool after heartbreak.

After 17 years in divorce law, Erin realized what most women needed wasn’t more guidance or judgment — it was a safe space to speak, vent, and breathe again. We dive deep into why we bottle up pain, how silence keeps us stuck, and how her unique Verbal Smash Sessions help women release emotions in healthy, powerful ways.


🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways

  • Why feeling heard matters more than being “fixed”

  • The real difference between therapy and intentional listening

  • How to release anger safely (yes, even with a sledgehammer)

  • Ways to let go of judgment and reclaim your voice

  • The healing power of being witnessed — not advised


    ⏱️ Episode Timestamps

  • 00:00 – Why healing starts with being heard

  • 02:00 – Erin’s journey: From divorce law to emotional listening

  • 05:00 – Creating the Seacoast Listening Lounge

  • 07:00 – What a professional listener actually does

  • 09:00 – The difference between therapy and being truly heard

  • 10:00 – Why we vent, and how safe spaces help us heal

  • 12:00 – Erin’s divorce journey and lessons from the process

  • 15:00 – Managing emotions and releasing judgment

  • 17:00 – How listening relieves pressure in friendships

  • 20:00 – The Verbal Smash Session: Emotional + physical release

  • 23:00 – Turning anger into healthy expression

  • 25:00 – How to connect with Erin and claim her listener offer


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