Real Talk with Lisa Sonni: Relationships Uncensored

You're Not Confused — You're Being Manipulated | Ep. 004


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In this explosive episode, Lisa and Dr. Peter Salerno drop a truth bomb that will change how you see manipulation forever. They dive deep into the uncomfortable reality that abusers manipulate on purpose, exploring whether manipulators need to be "smart" or just strategic, the real reasons behind their behavior, and why being manipulated leaves you feeling so confused and traumatized. This is a must-listen episode that will validate your experiences and help you see the truth clearly.


Key Topics Covered:

• The shocking truth: Abusers manipulate intentionally, not accidentally

• Intelligence vs. strategy - what it really takes to be a manipulator

• The psychology behind why abusers choose to manipulate

• Why manipulation creates such deep confusion and trauma

• How to recognize when you're being deliberately confused

• Breaking free from the "maybe they don't know what they're doing" mindset


Resources Mentioned:

Trauma Bond Recovery Group Coaching Program

Unbreakable and Irreplaceable: Rebuilding After The Trauma Bond

• "The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism" by Dr. Peter Salerno

• "Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance" by Dr. Peter Salerno


About Dr. Peter Salerno:

Dr. Peter Salerno is a licensed therapist with a PsyD and MS in Clinical Psychology. He specializes in personality disorders and trauma, with extensive training in these areas. He's the author of two groundbreaking books on narcissism and trauma.

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