Cathy and Todd interview Dr. Siegel’s newest book- The Power of Showing Up– How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become & How Their Brains Get Wired.

2:58 The Strange Research Study

7:16 Children adapt to their experiences differently

10:12 % of kids who are securely attached to their parents.

12:55 How well are we doing regarding older children?

17:12 Difference between attachment science vs attachment parenting

23:44 How trauma is like a dog bite

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The Power of Showing Up

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Cathy and Todd discuss Dr. Thomas Boyce’s book, The Orchid and the Dandelion and how all children can thrive if given the right environment. They also discuss neurodiversity, This is Us, some of the best movies of the year, and what’s in store for 2020.

3:24 Fallon Sherock- darts champion

9:32 Bechdel Test – biggest movies

13:30 Dandelions & Orchids- sensitive kids vs kids who are unfazed by their surroundings

31:31 You Are Light by Aaron Becker -Candlewick Press

32:07 This is Us- The 5th Wheel

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It’s a double feature as Cathy and Todd interview the CEO of A Call To Men Tony Porter & Author of Raising Good Humans Hunter Clarke-Fields.

32:39 You Are Light by Aaron Becker

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A Call To Men

Raising Good Humans

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Cathy and Todd discuss why women are expected to take a man’s last name, and why this can be an important discussion and decision for couples. They discuss the meaning of Miss, Ms, and Mrs., why Queen and Slim and Marriage Story are important movies, and why Carol Spinney, the man who played Big Bird will be missed.

3:30 Sesame Street Carol Spinney dies

6:17 Maiden names

16:00 Fragile male ego

23:45 Ms, Miss, Mrs.???

34:50 Hylands Earache drops

35:49 Queen & Slim

42:35 Marriage Story

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Cathy and Todd discuss poetry, Frozen 2, The ZPR Holiday Calendar and setting an intention.

2:20 Hunting Ground Screening Announcement

5:30  A Prescription of Poetry to Help Patients Speak Their Minds

9:47 Otherwise by Jane Kenyon

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15:52 Idina Menzel, Evan Rachel Wood – Show Yourself

26:35 ZPR Holiday Calendar

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Cathy and Todd discuss the new film “It’s A Beautiful Day In The Neighborhood” as well as a quick take on women’s menstruation.

1:48 More Female Athletes Talk About a Taboo: Their Periods

13:00 Hylands Earache drops

13:56 A Beautiful Day In The Neighborhood discussion

41:45 Threads Worldwide

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Cathy and Todd discuss Imago Dialogue as introduced by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt’s book titled Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and why it could help your relationships.

6:48 Foundation for Imago Dialogue

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27:22 Mirroring

35:05 Validation

41:29 Empathy

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Relationship Problems? This Marriage Advice Will Make All Your Relationships Healthier

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition

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Cathy and Todd discuss what it means to “feel felt” and how to attune to your partner and children. They also explain why it’s important to understand your child’s experience and not deny their reality.

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Cathy and Todd discuss Anna Quindlin’s quote, “The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself”, and how we can help our kids understand this at an early age. They discuss the anxiety kids feel to do everything right, and why kids from high-achieving schools are now considered “high risk”.

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We had two special guests on the podcast today – Rosalind Wiseman and our daughter Jacey – you don’t want to miss this discussion about dignity, respect, Euphoria, sex ed, boy group chats and of course, Mean Girls.  You can learn more about Rosalind and her work @ https://culturesofdignity.com

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7:03 Mean Girls & Queen Bees & Wannabees

11:15 Hollywood high school vs real high school

11:50 Euphoria

16:42 Masterminds & Wingmen

20:29 Are girls meaner?

24:21 Boys group chats

32:00 The problem with respect

38:34 Parents gossip

40:36 Sex ed

43:12 Dignity vs respect

55:00 Teasing

57:00 Popularity

1:01:00 Getting your kids to talk to you

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