You can't fix a hole in the wall you can't see, and only someone who was once blind to the self can teach another person to see what they cannot see. Abandonment trauma is not something you can see. It manifests in subconscious thoughts and ultimately behaviors. Relationships always reveal what is happening below the veil of consciousness. 

In this episode, Lisa A. Romano helps you become more aware of what may be impacting your ability to succeed at life and in relationships. 

Experiences teaches, and so if you want to learn how to heal from codependency, narcissistic abuse work with Lisa and her team here https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp