Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships

102. How Could He Treat Me Like This? Understanding Malignant Narcissism Cruelty With Hilary Buckwalter-Wilde


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Do you ever catch yourself asking, “How could he be so cruel—didn't he say he loved me?”

If you’ve been left reeling from a relationship that felt confusing, terrifying, or even dangerous, you’re not alone.

This episode dives deep into malignant narcissism—the darker end of the narcissism spectrum—so you can finally understand the dynamics you were caught in and release the self-blame that keeps you stuck.

In this conversation, you’ll discover:

  • How malignant narcissism is different from other types of narcissism and why it matters for your healing
  • What drives cruelty in abusive dynamics
  • The red flags and subtle signs to watch for that go beyond the obvious love bombing

Uncover the truth about malignant narcissism and gain the clarity you need to protect your peace and move forward with self-compassion.

RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:

🌻 ⁠Schedule your free Intro Session: https://tinyurl.com/freeintroseshpod

❤️ For more resources on healing from the mindf*ck of confusing relationships so you can securely attach + experience healthy love: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.brewolta.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

🫶🏻 Get the free 3 WAYS TO RECOGNIZE LOVE BOMBING GUIDE to spot love bombing and walk away from the red flags early: https://tinyurl.com/lovebombguide-htwshownotes

🫶🏻 ⁠Get the free RELATIONSHIP RESET GUIDE⁠: https://tinyurl.com/rrg-htwshownotes

  • Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
  • Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
  • Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
  • Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

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In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse. The host and guests share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safety after love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.

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