The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and Abuse

104. When There's No Ownership, Accountability or Apology


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Are you finding yourself still waiting for ownership from your ex about his choices and actions? Perhaps it's even subconscious and yet you find yourself feeling resentful angry or stuck in moving on because you are waiting for there to be some decency in a human to take accountability of their choices which led to the situations you are experiencing. Im sharing my thoughts about this today and offering a few things that I believe will hep you to heal and move forward, having an EMPOWERED DIVORCE.

Highlights:

  • Release Expectations for an Apology: Letting go of the hope for an apology frees you from emotional ties to your ex and aids healing.

    • Prioritize Personal Healing: Shift focus from your ex’s actions to your own recovery, finding internal closure.

    • Set Personal Boundaries: Avoid interactions that trigger emotional responses used by your ex to deflect responsibility.

    • Legally Follow Through without Emotional Engagement: Handle legal matters like child support reporting without emotional involvement.

    • Minimize Emotional Interactions: Keep necessary communications with your ex strictly business-like to prevent emotional manipulation.

    • Adjust Internal Dialogue: Focus on your healing rather than your ex’s unwillingness to acknowledge their faults.

    • Recognize Root Issues: Understand that your ex’s failure to accept responsibility reflects their limitations, not your value.

    • Stay Present and Accept Reality: Live in the present and accept things as they are, reducing the influence of external factors.

    • Focus Inward for Growth: Turn inward for self-reflection and growth instead of seeking closure from your ex.

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