The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and Abuse

114. Understanding & Overcoming Jealousy


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Today I'm diving deep into the often misunderstood emotion of jealousy and how to process it, especially in the aftermath of betrayal trauma and divorce. I'll explain jealousy in the context of internal family systems, seeing it as a protective 'manager' that signals vulnerabilities and unmet needs. Radical acceptance and healthy anger release are key strategies we'll discuss, alongside the healing power of gratitude to shift focus from lack to abundance. I'll also guide you through practical ways to incorporate gratitude in your daily life and delve into the seven levels of intimacy to reconnect with yourself and build resilience. Tune in to learn how to manage jealousy, practice self-awareness, and prepare to embrace healthy relationships once again. Don't forget to check out my self-paced program 'Intimacy Within' and the upcoming 'Dating Within' workshop for further support on your healing journey.

00:00 Introduction and Checking In

01:24 Understanding and Naming Emotions

03:35 The Impact of Trauma on Emotions

04:43 Exploring the Emotion of Jealousy

06:32 Jealousy in the Context of Relationships

09:43 Jealousy and Self-Reflection

12:22 Unpacking the Roots of Jealousy

13:19 Processing Grief and Emotions

13:38 Embracing Radical Acceptance

14:48 Channeling Anger Constructively

16:41 Letting Go of Obsessive Thoughts

19:19 Practicing Gratitude

21:49 Building Healthy Intimacy

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