How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

12 Tips on Dating as an Introverted Man, with Anthony Recenello


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OK, a quick joke.

How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)
Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.

Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted to introverted men.
Take it from your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, who happens to be a card-carrying introvert: What you THINK is a dating weakness is actually a dating strength. Women LOVE introverted men, as long as you channel your most authentic, attractive self—and learn the art of emotional connection.

In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell welcomes dating expert Anthony Recenello, who helps introverted men upgrade their social skills so that they can make emotional connections with women. He and Connell share tons of tips on dating as an introverted man.
Also, fun fact: Anthony used to coach Connell! Years ago, Anthony helped your host go from insecure and introverted to confident and downright magnetic to women. So, it’s like Jedi Luke Skywalker interviews Master Yoda.

In this far-reaching conversation, Connell and Anthony help you get more confidence and more dates, and discuss…

✔ How to be charismatic with women, even if you’re an introvert—without acting like someone you’re not
✔ A simple, effective strategy to meet women off of the apps, without having to do approaches
✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to dating as an introverted man, that Anthony gave Connell when they worked together
✔ Why dating success is not about “picking women up” but rather about making genuine emotional connections
✔ How to never “run out of things to say” on dates, so you have fun, flirty conversations with women

Oh, and catch Anthony showing off his coaching skills on a brand-new dating reality show, “Love Always,” on Paramount Plus.

Listen now, so that you can stop feeling insecure and start dating with confidence, while making genuine emotional connections—and doing it with total authenticity and respect for women.


QUOTES

"In like-minded communities, I found confidence, joy, and authenticity. It's not about bars and going out for me; it's about connecting with people who share my passions.”- Anthony Recenello
Active listening creates a powerful impression when you ask a question and allow someone to share without interruption. It shows your genuine interest in them and encourages them to open up further."- Anthony Recenello


FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE

Anthony Recenello
Founder and Dating Coach of Wolf & Garden
Website:https://recenello.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyrecenello/

TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ANTHONY, OR TAKE HIS FREE CLASS:

http://www.recenello.com/freeclass

CHECK OUT ANTHONY’S NEW REALITY SHOW:

https://deadline.com/2023/05/paramount-pansexual-reality-dating-series-love-allways-lexi-paloma-premiere-date-1235367102/

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction
00:19 Unveiling the Charisma Formula
05:03 The Charisma Formula: Authentic Expression and Presence
16:55 Enhancing Social Skills through Daily Socializing
23:57 From Improv to Acting: How It Impacted Relationships
28:25 The Three Keys to Confidence: Presence, Purpose, and Health
37:15 Transforming Lives: A Dating Method for Introverts
43:36 Boosting Introvert Confidence through Community Validation
47:06 Delving into the Art of Flirting and Sexuality
52:13 The Power of Intentions: Candid Conversations about Sex
57:36 Expressing Good Intentions and Genuine Emotions
01:03:16 Extroverted Friends: Do They Just Talk About Nothing?
01:08:27 Mastering Presence and Purpose in Conversations
01:15:32 Uncovering Biography Topics and Preferences in Discussions
01:20:49 Making Better Connections: The Importance of Early Introductions
01:27:00 Outro

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