This episode is all about love—the love you thought hurt you, the love that felt like it betrayed you, and the love that is still very much yours to reclaim. February can be an ambush for those healing from betrayal, making love feel like a battlefield instead of something safe and beautiful. But love itself didn’t hurt you—betrayal, deception, and broken trust did. Love was never the weapon. In fact, it remains your greatest strength.

I dive into how our brains try to protect us from love after betrayal, scanning for threats and reinforcing fear-based thoughts. But what if love wasn’t the problem? What if the real power lies in choosing how you want to love—yourself and others—rather than fearing it? I guide you through reconnecting with your native language of love, the one you were born with before the world told you otherwise.

This episode includes a special visualization exercise to help you tap into that love again, along with practical ways to rewrite your inner narrative, create love rituals, and practice self-compassion. Because love isn’t something you have to find—it’s who you are.

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