Becoming Securely Attached is a practice that we all can do no matter where we are at in our healing from betrayal, abuse and divorce. Secure attachment isn’t about never feeling anxious or hurt—it’s about knowing you can handle those feelings and still trust yourself. When betrayal, abuse, or divorce shatters that sense of security, it’s easy to feel like you’ll never trust again. But attachment isn’t set in stone—it can be rebuilt. In this episode, we’re diving into what secure attachment really looks like, how betrayal disrupts it, and, most importantly, the steps you can take to cultivate security within yourself before stepping into another relationship. Because healing isn’t about finding someone else to make you feel safe—it’s about learning that you are your own safe place first.

Today I will give you a few things to start practicing today towards having a secure attachment with yourself first.

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⁠⁠⁠Brainspotting Intensive; The Body Awakened⁠⁠⁠

April 9-11 2025

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce 101 Self Paced Guide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to walk you through how to make the next right step for you, right now. Whether you are wondering what to do next, you are having a hard time accepting that this is your life now, or you are ready to take that next step forward in healing, this is for you. Each stage comes with a workbook and a bonus vidoe on tips to support your children through divorce as well.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Intimacy Within Course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Want to learn how to create healthy intimacy within? To know what to look for in a future partner? Have you considered practicing the 7 levels of intimacy for yourself first? Check out my self paced course that walks you through each level if intimacy and helps you connect back towards YOU first.

DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP: TBA

learn how to date yourself, connect back towards YOU and love yourself FIRST! Click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to register today!

Here are some FREE resources from Amie you can check out

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The first Thursday of every month, come and ask Amie questions and get coached around your particular divorce as well as feel supported by others who are going through similar situations. You are NOT alone and women need women.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Body Love Class⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Free workshop to help you love your body again after betrayal

Take Healing To Next Level with my SIGNATURE PROGRAM

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Believing In You-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ becoming more aware of your human brain and how its keeping you from being the chooser in your life. Amie's group coaching program is an incredible way to get coached by her as well as feel support from other women, and most importantly really start healing and creating the life you want. Next group starts in January. Sports fill fast so get yours today!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Register HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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