Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

#190: From 'You Never Listen' to 'I Feel Heard': Transform Your Relationship Today


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Are you tired of feeling like your partner never listens to you? Do you find yourself constantly repeating the same things, only to be met with blank stares or distracted nods? You're not alone.

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for couples at a relationship crossroads. If you're facing daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap, and dream of rebuilding a genuine, lasting bond with your partner, this episode is for you.

In this powerful discussion, we dive deep into the art of listening and being heard in relationships. You'll discover:

  • Why truly listening is harder than you think (and why it matters so much)
  • The surprising reasons your partner might not be hearing you
  • Practical techniques to become a better listener and communicator
  • How to share your feelings in a way that encourages understanding

Ever wondered, "Why can't they just hear me out?" or "Am I really that bad at listening?" We tackle these questions and more.

Join relationship expert Stacey Bartley and her co-hosts as they unpack the complexities of communication and offer real-world solutions to help you reconnect with your partner.

Don't miss this chance to transform your relationship through the power of listening. Tune in now and take the first step towards feeling truly heard and understood by your partner.

Timestamps:
01:42 The Brutal Truth: Are You Really as Good a Listener as You Think?
03:17 Why Listening is Harder Than You Think (And Why That Matters)
06:39 Emotional Capacity: The Secret Ingredient to Being Truly Heard
10:56 The Distraction Epidemic: How It's Killing Your Communication
24:55 Speak So They'll Listen: Game-Changing Tips to Be Heard
31:16 Breaking Free from the "You Never Listen" Cycle
31:52 Own Your Emotions: The Key to Better Communication
32:58 Communication Hacks That Actually Work
35:24 The Power of Specificity: Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say
37:22 Give and Take: Balancing the Scales in Your Relationship
38:41 Tough Talks Made Easier: Navigating Difficult Conversations
41:32 Reflective Listening: The Skill That Could Save Your Relationship
44:06 Listening 101: Essential Tips for Deeper Connection
51:06 Creating a Safe Haven: How to Make Your Partner Feel Heard
56:42 The Unexpected Romance Booster: Why Dressing Up Still Matters
59:53 Your Next Steps: Putting Listening into Action

Resources Mentioned:

  1. Better Love Club: Gain access to unlimited resources, engaging workshops, and a supportive community to enhance your relationship skills. Join the club today.
  2. Work with Me: To find all the ways you can work with us, go here.
  3. Relationship Conversation Cards: Enhance your communication and deepen your connection with our Relationship Conversation Cards. stacibartley.com/cards
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Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their RelationshipsBy Staci Bartley, Relationship Expert

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