Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships

#199: Neglect Is Destroying Your Relationship – Recognize the Signs Before It’s Too Late


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Picture this: You’re sitting across from your partner. The house is finally quiet, no phones, no distractions. But instead of feeling close, there’s an empty space between you... a gap that feels impossible to bridge. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. 67% of couples report feeling emotionally disconnected, but here’s the real shocker: most don’t even realize it until it’s almost too late.

Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we help couples at a crossroads find their way back to a stronger, more connected relationship. In this episode, we’re diving deep into a silent relationship killer—neglect. You know the feeling: endless responsibilities, constant busyness, and suddenly, the person who used to be your number one priority feels like a distant stranger.

So, how do you stop the slow drift toward emotional atrophy and rekindle your bond?

Stick with us as we uncover the hidden signs of relationship neglect, why "I’m too busy" is the most costly lie you can tell yourself, and, most importantly, what you can do today to change course. You’ll walk away with simple, actionable steps to reconnect with your partner, whether you’re in crisis or just looking to strengthen your connection.

Curious about the invisible damage happening under the surface of your relationship? We’ll help you spot it and stop it. Ready to roll up your sleeves and rebuild what you thought might be lost? This episode is your roadmap.

Your future self, and your relationship, will thank you for tuning in. Let’s dive in.

Timestamps:

02:14 The Cost of Neglect
04:57 Avoidance and Its Consequences
08:53 The Hierarchy of Relationships
11:24 Facing the Fear and Finding Courage
20:14 The Hidden Dangers of Neglect
28:54 Blame and Accountability
29:42 Understanding Betrayal in Relationships
31:11 Rebuilding Trust and Connection
32:37 Practical Remedies for Relationship Neglect
35:03 The Power of Quality Time
36:39 The Importance of Being Present
42:05 Open Communication and Support
47:14 Introducing 'Save Your Marriage' Program
49:40 Creating Romance Heaven
53:18 Closing Thoughts and Listener Appreciation

Ready to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.

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