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Are you at the point where the silence between you and your partner is louder than the conversations? The same arguments, the same disappointments, the same distance, growing with every passing day. You’ve tried everything — from pleading to pretending everything’s fine — but the gap only seems to widen. You’re not alone. In fact, over a third of couples admit to feeling disconnected and uncertain about their future together.

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those facing relationship crossroads. I’m Staci Bartley, relationship mentor, and I’m here with my co-host Tom and our daughter Brooke. Together, we’ve guided couples through some of the most challenging moments in their lives. We know what it’s like to feel stuck, and more importantly, we know how to help you out of it.

Today, we’re answering the question you may have been avoiding: Is it too late to save your relationship? Or, more importantly, what haven’t you tried yet? In this special 200th episode, we’re sharing unconventional strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnection. You might be surprised to learn that doing less, not more, could reignite the intimacy you thought was lost for good.

Are you ready to explore the hidden opportunities that you’ve overlooked? Let’s dive into what’s really going on and discover why understanding your part in the emotional dynamic could be the key to unlocking lasting change. Your relationship isn’t over—it’s just waiting for a new beginning. Tune in now.

Timestamps:

02:00 Understanding Self-Sabotage
03:26 The Cycle of Conflict
05:49 The Importance of Emotional Safety
15:23 Unconventional Benchmarks for Progress
23:00 The Power of Doing Less
26:29 Embracing the Mess
29:26 Starting with Your Part
30:15 The Power of the Pause
33:32 Discussing What Matters Most
36:49 Inviting Your Partner In
43:50 Navigating Relationship Changes
45:04 Transformative Client Stories
52:23 Exploring Memories for Inspiration
55:01 Conclusion and Next Steps

Ready to build those essential skills? Join the waitlist for Save Your Marriage: A Blueprint for Avoiding Divorce and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Sign up now at stacibartley.com/waitlist and start learning the tools to transform your relationship.