Have you ever been so caught up in the excitement of a new relationship that you threw everything you had planned out the window? Ignored red flags because it felt so good to be around the person? Gone through a painful breakup only to realize later that the relationship probably wasn’t the right relationship for you anyway?

Being attracted to someone and having chemistry doesn’t necessarily mean that you are compatible as partners. Unfortunately, the initial spark between two people can quickly erase our ability to think rationally about moving forward together. But don’t worry, we’ve got your back. Today we take quick a deep look at:

-The difference between chemistry and compatibility

-Why so many of us lose sight of compatibility factors when we meet someone we are attracted to

-The triangle of love and how to use it in your dating life

-Tips for keeping an eye on compatibility factors when dating

-What it means to “be compatible”

You might not look at dating the same after this episode! And you might find that you end up in happier, longer-lasting relationships!

Have you ever mistaken chemistry for compatibility? Let us know! Head over to the podcast Instagram @exphilespodcast and follow Clair @clairlofthouse and Janice @Janiceformichella. And if you’d like to join our online community, find us on Facebook at Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On.  We want to know you and for you to know us!