Is it dysfunctional or is it abusive?

Sometimes it can be hard to tell what type of relationship we are (or were) in because abuse doesn’t always leave a mark.

In this episode Khryzza Kelley shares with us how she realized that the relationship she was in was emotionally abusive and how she found the knowing that it was time to leave. She relays her journey through trauma healing and repatterining her behaviors, and beautifully shares how she and her now husband maintain a healthy relationship - giving you a guide on what to look for in a healthy dynamic.

In this episode you will:

• Hear the unspoken reason why verbal abuse is so hard to recognize
• Understand the most vital aspects necessary for a healthy relationship, and how the heck to know you’re in something healthy
• Learn how Khryzza moved out of the trauma responses from her abusive relationship in order to trust herself and date again

▶️ Tune in now to gain some insight on what you can expect from healthy relationships, and what the signs are that something is not right.

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• Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
• Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
• Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
• Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

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In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse, as hosts share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safetyafter love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.