Ever look back on an unhealthy relationship and think, "What was I thinking—was I blind or just a professional red-flag collector?"

(I’ve been there, no shame here.)

If you’ve ever found yourself cringing at your past choices and wondering why you stuck around longer than a bad Netflix series, this episode dives deep into the real reasons behind those decisions—and how you can finally move on without the guilt trip.

In this episode you will:

• Understand what fuels our dissociation from seeing the red flags are waving
• They key you need in order to recognize behavior that isn’t working for you and walk away
• Learn how to stop judging yourself like it’s an Olympic event and start healing for real

It’s time to ditch the red flags and reclaim your peace—no more relationship reruns! Press play for all the goodness.

MENTIONED:

• Find Yourself Again (A self-guided course to help you identify your values, non-negotiables, and wants so you can enter into healthy relationships confidently): https://brewolta.mykajabi.com/find-yourself-again
• 3 WAYS TO RECOGNIZE LOVE BOMBING GUIDE to spot love bombing and walk away from the red flags early: https://www.brewolta.com/lovebombing

RESOURCES FOR YOUR HEALING:

❤️ For more resources on healing from the mindf*ck of confusing relationships so you can securely attach + experience healthy love: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.brewolta.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

🫶🏻 Get the free 3 WAYS TO RECOGNIZE LOVE BOMBING GUIDE to spot love bombing and walk away from the red flags early: https://www.brewolta.com/lovebombing

🫶🏻 ⁠Get the free RELATIONSHIP RESET GUIDE⁠: https://www.brewolta.com/want-real-love

• Learn how to communicate your feelings (without feeling guilty)
• Navigate triggering moments without shutting down
• Feel secure on your own so you aren’t jumping into the wrong relationship
• Expand your capacity to hold next-level love while remaining true to you

🌻 ⁠Submit an interest form⁠ to work with me: https://www.brewolta.com/interest-form

In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse, as hosts share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safetyafter love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.