Could the very thing that feels like connection be part of a darker cycle of abuse?

This is a continuation of my conversation with Hilary Buckwalter-Wilde from Ep. 47 where we explore the complex dynamics of narcissistic abuse and her experience of having sex used as a powerful tool for manipulation.

If you've ever struggled to leave a toxic relationship because of the physical intimacy that kept you hooked thinking, “I can’t leave because the sex is too good,” this conversation will resonate deeply and shed light on the emotional entanglements you may not even realize you're caught in.

In this episode you will:

• Understand how narcissistic partners use sex to maintain control and create emotional dependency
• Learn about the psychological impact of sex in abusive relationships and why it’s so difficult to break free
• The surprising role that consent plays in relationships where sexual exploitation is disguised as intimacy

Don’t miss this eye-opening episode that could change the way you view intimacy and control in toxic relationships—click play now and reclaim your understanding of what real love and connection should feel like!

MENTIONED:

• Part 1 of Hilary’s story is episode 47: Was Any Of It Real? Signs You've Been Deceived In A Narcissistic Relationship & How To Finally Understand It With Hilary Buckwalter-Wilde: https://pod.fo/e/277854 
• Hilary’s website: indwellingduluth.com
• HIlary’s Instagram: @‌sacredcounsel.duluth

Hilary Buckwalter-Wilde, MA, is the founder of Indwelling: A Place to Restore Connection. Hilary is a Sacred Counsel Guide that specializes in trauma healing and narcissistic abuse recovery. She sees clients one on one in private practice and also leads retreats, workshops, and offers trainings and certificate programs.

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In this gripping podcast, listeners explore the complex dynamics of toxic relationships, unpacking themes like narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation, while delving into how empathy, attachment styles, and people pleasing behaviors contribute to codependency, trauma bonding, and emotional abuse, as hosts share real stories of betrayal, guilt, and heartbreak—all while guiding survivors through letting go of an ex, identifying red flags, reclaiming self worth and confidence, establishing boundaries, and rebuilding emotional safetyafter love bombing, manipulation, self doubt, and deep-rooted trauma.