Do you keep falling for the same emotionally unavailable men — and calling it a “spark”?
In this honest and empowering episode of Speak Honest, I sit down with relationship expert and bestselling author Bob Grant to unpack one of the most common traps women fall into: mistaking intensity for intimacy. We talk about why real love often feels unfamiliar, how to stop hiding your emotions to seem “low maintenance,” and what men actually find irresistible. If you’ve ever sabotaged a healthy relationship because it felt “too safe”... this one’s for you.

You might want to listen if:

• You’re drawn to the chase but bored by emotional availability
• You’ve been called “too much” (or feared that you were)
• You suppress your anger or sadness to keep the peace
• You want love but don’t know what your non-negotiables are
• You’re tired of trying to prove your worth and ready to feel secure instead

More About Our Guest!
Bob Grant is a clinically trained relationship expert, podcaster, and bestselling author of The Woman Men Adore. He’s the founder of Relationship Headquarters, where he specializes in helping women emotionally connect with a man, attract true love, get married, and, for those in a relationship, get unstuck and begin connecting as a couple.

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