The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and Abuse

64. My 5 Favorite Thoughts To Practice


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Today's episode focuses on 5 thoughts that have now become beliefs for me. I continue to practice as my human brain will still offer me the untrue thoughts sometimes. So there is no arrival to these thoughts! The shift that these thoughts have given me is life changing and I hope that you will be able to feel the shift in your own life as you continue to be the CHOOSER in your life!

The 5 thoughts I will discuss today:

  1. "I am empowered enough, so what can I do here?"

    • This thought emphasizes personal empowerment and the ability to take action in challenging situations.
    • It encourages problem-solving from a higher self, separate from fear or anxiety.
    • "This doesn't change my worth and value."

      • Acknowledges that external circumstances or situations don't determine one's intrinsic worth or value.
      • Encourages separating self-worth from external factors or judgments.
      • "I am not my emotions, and it is okay to feel this."

        • Highlights the distinction between one's identity and the emotions they experience.
        • Promotes self-compassion and acceptance of emotions, even if they are challenging.
        • "What others think and feel about me is none of my business."

          • Encourages letting go of the need for external validation or worrying about others' opinions.
          • Focuses on staying within one's control bubble and not trying to change others' perceptions.
          • "If love is an option, do I want to choose it here?"

            • Recognizes that choosing love doesn't mean condoning harmful behavior but nurturing a state of being.
            • Offers the option to choose love as an emotion, which can be nourishing and empowering.
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              The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and AbuseBy Amie Woolsey Certified Brainspotting Practitioner, PCC, APSATS-CPC,ELI-MP, C-DGS

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