How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

7 First Date Outfits for Men, with style expert Riane Bawalan


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So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf buddy?

Your clothes can either make you MAGNETIC… or they can make you lonely and dateless.

In dating, your looks are overrated, but your LOOK matters… a lot! Good style is essential. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Riane Bawalan, a professional stylist for men. Riane helps single guys look great, so that they can get more dates and look and feel more confident. Listen now, so you can look and feel hot and handsome, and attract a wonderful woman into your life.

FOR STYLE HELP FROM RIANE BAWALAN:
http://www.thegentlemansphotographer.com

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

BONUS TIPS: 8 STYLE RULES FOR GREAT FIRST DATES

The right clothes help unlock your confidence. In a Men’s Health survey, 78 percent of women said that dressing well is the hottest thing a man can do, and 85 percent said that a well-dressed man is sexier than a man with lots of money.

Here are eight style rules for first dates (and dating in general.)

1: Your shirts, pants, and jackets should be tailored for your body, or appear to be. The biggest style mistake men make? Baggy, ill-fitting clothes. Your duds shouldn’t be too tight, nor should they billow. Think somewhat snug.

2: Own at least one pair of quality, dark denim jeans (blue or black). And please, no pleated khakis! (Be a hot guy, not a Helpful Honda Guy.)

3: As for shirts, favor button-downs, polos, and quality tees. In an Esquire survey, women preferred plain white tees on a man more than any other kind of shirt.

4: Have at least one pair of fun, stylish sneakers (NOT gym shoes), such as Stan Smiths or Chuck Taylors. As for dress shoes, consider a classic loafer, brogue, or lace-up Oxford (brown or black.)

5: Be well-groomed, and smell absolutely amazing.

6: Your hair (or lack thereof) should look “on purpose,” whether you’re rocking a cool fade, or shaving your head. Consider a consultation with a hair stylist.

7: If you’re balding, keep it very close-cropped, or go full Kojak.

8: Wear boxer-briefs. In a GQ survey, 65 percent of women preferred boxer-briefs on a man (compared to 19 percent for boxers and 5 percent for tightie-whities.) True, it’s only the first date, but it’s best to be prepared.

Quotes:

"Wearing clothes that reflect your personality and interests is a great icebreaker and conversation starter." -Riane Bawalan

"Men should prioritize taking some time to revamp their wardrobe. It not only boosts your confidence and changes how you perceive yourself, but also influences the impression you make on others. ."- Riane Bawalan

"People's clothing choices often reflect their mindset and lifestyle, with some not caring about what they wear. It's a reflection of their home or lifestyle."- Riane Bawalan

Chapters

00:15 Introduction
03:11 The Importance of Well-Fitting Clothes
09:10 Adding Color to Your Wardrobe: Embracing Versatile Neutrals
11:38 Taking Control of Your Style: Haircuts and Shape-Ups
13:03 The Magnetic Appeal of a Well-Groomed Appearance
15:39 Fashion Choices: Judging a Man by His Style
20:07 Footwear Essentials: Two Must-Have Shoes for Every Man
23:07 Demystifying Denim: Slim or Athletic Fit, Four Color Options
26:49 Expressing Confidence Through Style: Unleash Your True Personality
33:06 Guiding You to Confidence: A Stylist's Expertise
34:46 Unleashing Your Style Potential: Personal Styling and Photography Services
36:12 Outro
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