How much personal power and energy do you leak by arguing with someone who is so committed to their opinion they will never see your perspective?

Want to hear one of my favorite pieces of advice about this? I learned it from my shaman.

“If you don't want to get wet, stay out of the water.”

What many of us do is dive straight into the water. We have an urge to get involved, we want to help our friends and family, we desperately want to save the other person. 

As a result, we make ourselves wet by getting in that water, into that drama.

The truth is, you can choose to be on the riverbank where it's dry and leave everybody else is in the water to live their own life experiences…

In their stuff, in their stories, in their entanglements and attachments.

It's got nothing to do with you.

The power is within the observer. The power is within the unattached.