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73. "What If I Scare Men Off"; Fears Around Future Relationships
I remember thinking after divorce, that my life is such a mess and I have so much emotional baggage, trauma and problems that no guy will ever want to date me let alone marry me. This energy limited my beliefs about myself and about what I can create in my future.
I felt sorry for myself, and even though it makes sense why, it wasnt helping the energy I was putting out. into the world.
Today I talk about why this kind of thinking isnt just limiting but keeps you stuck! I'll share the most common lies the human brain will often tell you. Once you become more aware of these lies, you can begin to shift and believe something NEW!
Challenging Common Beliefs: You will learn how to transform prevalent beliefs and fears that often deter you from reentering the dating scene post-divorce. These include feeling burdensome, damaged, or believing it's too late to find love again.
The Influence of Fear: The episode explores how fear can deceive you into accepting your negative thoughts as facts. You will learn how to overcome the detrimental effects of fear, such as feelings of hopelessness and unworthiness.
Belief in "The One": You will learn that the idea of a single, destined soulmate is a myth. We dispel this misconception and emphasize that a failed relationship does not preclude the possibility of finding love again. Believing in "The One" can limit your choices and prospects.
Learning from the Past: The episode underscores the importance of gleaning valuable lessons from past relationships rather than presuming that history will repeat itself. You will learn how to use past failures as stepping stones to build trust in future relationships.
Age and Timing: You will be encouraged to understand that it's never too late to seek love or reenter the dating scene, regardless of age or past experiences. Age should not be seen as a hindrance to finding fulfilling relationships.
Want to hear more from Amie? Follow on instagram @amiewoolsey
Dating From Within Workshop: JANUARY 25th-27th
Learning how to date YOURSELF, connect back towards YOU and love yourself FIRST. Get more information and your spot today! REGISTER HERE
NEW Divorce 101 Self Paced Guide to walk you through how to make the next right step for you, right now. Whether you are wondering what to do next, you are having a hard time accepting that this is your life now, or you are ready to take that next step forward in healing, this is for you. Each stage comes with a workbook and a bonus vidoe on tips to support your children through divorce as well. Check it out!
NEW!! Intimacy Within Course- Want to learn how to create healthy intimacy within? To know what to look for in a future partner? Have you considered practicing the 7 levels of intimacy for yourself first? Check out my self paced course that walks you through each level if intimacy and helps you connect back towards YOU first.
Here are some FREE resources from Amie you can check out
The Empowered Divorce Q&A- The first Thursday of every month, come and ask Amie questions and get coached around your particular divorce as well as feel supported by others who are going through similar situations. You are NOT alone and women need women.
The Body Love Class- Free workshop to help you love your body again after betrayal
Take Healing To Next Level with my SIGNATURE PROGRAM
Believing In You- becoming more aware of your human brain and how its keeping you from being the chooser in your life. Amie's group coaching program is an incredible way to get coached by her as well as feel support from other women, and most importantly really start healing and creating the life you want. Next group starts in January. Sports fill fast so get yours today! Register HERE
Want to work with Amie? For a consult click HERE
Amie is also on the Choose To BE Podcast
FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Instagram- @amiewoolsey
Facebook- @amiewoolsey.lifecoach
TikTok- @amielifecoach
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By Amie Woolsey Certified Brainspotting Practitioner, PCC, APSATS-CPC,ELI-MP, C-DGS
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I remember thinking after divorce, that my life is such a mess and I have so much emotional baggage, trauma and problems that no guy will ever want to date me let alone marry me. This energy limited my beliefs about myself and about what I can create in my future.
I felt sorry for myself, and even though it makes sense why, it wasnt helping the energy I was putting out. into the world.
Today I talk about why this kind of thinking isnt just limiting but keeps you stuck! I'll share the most common lies the human brain will often tell you. Once you become more aware of these lies, you can begin to shift and believe something NEW!
Challenging Common Beliefs: You will learn how to transform prevalent beliefs and fears that often deter you from reentering the dating scene post-divorce. These include feeling burdensome, damaged, or believing it's too late to find love again.
The Influence of Fear: The episode explores how fear can deceive you into accepting your negative thoughts as facts. You will learn how to overcome the detrimental effects of fear, such as feelings of hopelessness and unworthiness.
Belief in "The One": You will learn that the idea of a single, destined soulmate is a myth. We dispel this misconception and emphasize that a failed relationship does not preclude the possibility of finding love again. Believing in "The One" can limit your choices and prospects.
Learning from the Past: The episode underscores the importance of gleaning valuable lessons from past relationships rather than presuming that history will repeat itself. You will learn how to use past failures as stepping stones to build trust in future relationships.
Age and Timing: You will be encouraged to understand that it's never too late to seek love or reenter the dating scene, regardless of age or past experiences. Age should not be seen as a hindrance to finding fulfilling relationships.
Want to hear more from Amie? Follow on instagram @amiewoolsey
Dating From Within Workshop: JANUARY 25th-27th
Learning how to date YOURSELF, connect back towards YOU and love yourself FIRST. Get more information and your spot today! REGISTER HERE
NEW Divorce 101 Self Paced Guide to walk you through how to make the next right step for you, right now. Whether you are wondering what to do next, you are having a hard time accepting that this is your life now, or you are ready to take that next step forward in healing, this is for you. Each stage comes with a workbook and a bonus vidoe on tips to support your children through divorce as well. Check it out!
NEW!! Intimacy Within Course- Want to learn how to create healthy intimacy within? To know what to look for in a future partner? Have you considered practicing the 7 levels of intimacy for yourself first? Check out my self paced course that walks you through each level if intimacy and helps you connect back towards YOU first.
Here are some FREE resources from Amie you can check out
The Empowered Divorce Q&A- The first Thursday of every month, come and ask Amie questions and get coached around your particular divorce as well as feel supported by others who are going through similar situations. You are NOT alone and women need women.
The Body Love Class- Free workshop to help you love your body again after betrayal
Take Healing To Next Level with my SIGNATURE PROGRAM
Believing In You- becoming more aware of your human brain and how its keeping you from being the chooser in your life. Amie's group coaching program is an incredible way to get coached by her as well as feel support from other women, and most importantly really start healing and creating the life you want. Next group starts in January. Sports fill fast so get yours today! Register HERE
Want to work with Amie? For a consult click HERE
Amie is also on the Choose To BE Podcast
FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Instagram- @amiewoolsey
Facebook- @amiewoolsey.lifecoach
TikTok- @amielifecoach
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