Why isn’t everyone using pleasure as a pathway to power?

In this Best Of season finale of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with her best friend and legendary Tantra teacher, Layla Martin—and this episode is pure magic.

Layla is a Stanford graduate who spent 19 years studying Tantra in the jungles of Asia before bringing her teachings to the world. She’s helped millions reclaim their sexuality, awaken their deepest desires, and unlock states of bliss most of us didn’t even know were possible.

In this episode, Emily and Layla dive into:

🔥 The truth about Tantra (it’s way more than just sex!)

🔥 How ecstasy was once used as a purifying force—and why it’s time to bring it back

🔥 The #1 reason so many people suppress their pleasure (and how to break free)

🔥 How embodiment and manifestation are directly linked

🔥 Why fear of our own power holds us back—and how to reclaim it

🔥 The role of sacred sexuality in personal and collective transformation

This conversation is fire from start to finish. Layla doesn’t just share wisdom—she embodies it. And if you’ve ever felt even a little disconnected from your pleasure, your power, or your purpose, this episode is a must-listen.

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🔥 Press play and start living a life that turns you on.

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About the guest:

Layla Martin is a leading expert in sexual wellness, Tantra, and personal development. Dubbed the "Headmistress of Pleasure" by Women’s Health, she founded the VITA Method, certifying professionals in a Tantric approach to love, sex, and relationships. With a Stanford background in human sexuality and neuroscience, plus 20 years of global Tantra training, she blends science and ancient wisdom to help people heal, release limiting beliefs, and unlock deep pleasure.

Follow her here:

Website: https://laylamartin.com/

Instagram: @thelaylamartin

YouTube: @laylamartintv