This episode is a love-letter to aliveness, and gives you sacred permission to be soft, silly, and slow.

It asks: 

What if today, you let yourself believe it was all magic? 

What if joy wasn't something to earn — but something to practice? 

This is your invitation to reject the homogenization of happiness, to romance the ordinary by becoming alive to our senses, and to let bliss be your rebellion - because it takes discipline to be in it.

If you've been caught up in the trap of productivity, control, have forgotten that you are a human on a floating rock and we're ALL just figuring sh!t out, this episode is for you — and it is a sacred portal to come home to wonder. 

Inside the episode: 

• Why softness and joy are powerful and sacred practices (not weaknesses) that have been practiced for centuries in ritual
• How your inner child is your portal to your higher self
• The myth of "coolness" and how it keeps us disconnected
• My personal rituals and list of romanticizing the every day 
• The feminine void, divine energy, and what it means to create from nothingness without an agenda
• Why play is a spiritual portal and how to reclaim it as an adult 
• What to do when joy feels scary or guilt-inducing

Romanticizing your life is not delusional, it is devotional. 

Play, Art, & Joy are not frivolous - they are sacred. 

So sit back , soften your edges, make a cup of tea — and come home.

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CHAPTERS:

0:00-6:00: Being Silly is Sacred - Softness Isn't Weakness

6:00-8:30: The Myth of Maturity: Get Over Yourself. Being Cool is a Cage

8:30-11:50 Falling in Love with the Process 

11:50-14:00: The Power of Joy, Dance, & Community as Sacred Ritual

14:00-18:30: Shedding the Guilt of Happiness, Being in Bliss is Being in Divine Service

18:30-20:00: Inner Child is the Gateway to the Higher Self 

20:00-28:00: The Little Ways I Romanticize My Life 

28:00-32:00: Joy is a Great Business Strategy 

32:00-36:00: De-Influencing Minimalism & Curating a Life that Feels like Magic Adornment

36:00-40:00: The Feminine Void, The Sacred Unknown, The Dance of Energies 

40:00-47:00: The First Step to Manifestation & What Real Luxury Is 

47:00-48:00: Opportunity!

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