After the Affair

87. The Power of Compersion: What Polyamory can teach us about Healing from Infidelity


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In this episode of 'After the Affair,' join me Luke Shillings, as I take a look into the fascinating world of polyamory to uncover valuable insights that can aid in healing from infidelity. Polyamorous relationships, known for their emphasis on open communication, emotional intelligence, and the unique concept of compersion, offer profound lessons for monogamous couples recovering from betrayal.

Join Luke as he explores:

  • The definition and history of polyamory
  • Psychological perspectives on managing jealousy, fostering emotional intelligence, and cultivating self-awareness
  • The impact of polyamory on traditional monogamous marriages
  • Legal and ethical considerations surrounding polyamorous relationships
  • Cultural narratives and media representations of polyamory
  • Practical tools and strategies from polyamorous practices that can enhance trust and communication in any relationship
  • Special Mention: A heartfelt thank you to everyone who has joined our Facebook group! Your support and engagement are invaluable. If you haven’t joined yet, search for 'After the Affair (with Luke Shillings)' on Facebook and become part of our community.

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    Key Takeaways:

    • Emotional intelligence and self-awareness are crucial in managing complex relationship dynamics.
  • Effective communication and regular check-ins can prevent misunderstandings and strengthen bonds.
  • The concept of compersion can shift perspectives on jealousy and foster mutual happiness.
  • Conflict resolution techniques from polyamorous practices can benefit any relationship.
  • Tune in to discover how the principles of polyamory can help you rebuild trust and heal from infidelity.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Join our Facebook group: After the Affair Community
  • Articles and books on polyamory and emotional intelligence
  • Tools for effective communication and conflict resolution
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    Listener Interaction: We love hearing from you! Share your thoughts, questions, and stories with us at [email protected] or in our Facebook group.

    Thank you for tuning in to 'After the Affair.' Remember, healing is a journey, and together, we can navigate the path to recovery. Until next time, take care and keep moving forward.

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