I am continuing the conversation today and sharing the resource I created that helps you to identify if you are stuck in your healing journey. Last week I went over common thoughts that you will have while in VICTIM and EMERGER stages. Today I will cover common thoughts that relate to RECLAIMER and CHOOSER stages.

Remembering that there are NO wrong or bad stages, yet we can get stuck along the way. I offer a few thoughts on how to move forward and ultimately, how to be the chooser in your life and have and EMPOWERED divorce.

Example of Reclaimer Thoughts:

I am learning to trust my body

My truth matters

I am worthy of healthy

I can feel my emotions

I am not my trauma

Example of Chooser Thoughts:

I trust myself, and I've got my own back

My choices reflect my values

I am the creator of my life

I am MORE than enough

What others think and feel about me is none of my business

For FULL list of stages click HERE

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Through my own journey and deeply personal decision around should I stay or go,  I realized that there is no 'right' choice-  but that I make the choice right, by being the chooser of it.

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