The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and Abuse

94. What Does Healthy Look Like PART 1 w/ Kimberly Day LMHC


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My friend and colleague Kimberly Day LMHC share a private podcast on ONE SAFE SPACE where our focus in one supporting women who are navigating abuse in their relationship. I have pulled this episode and a few others that I felt would be just as valuable for you my amazing listeners.

Key Points Discussed:

  1. Healthy Doesn't Mean Perfect:

    • Exploring what healthy interactions and relationships look like, acknowledging that while perfection isn't the goal, a genuine investment in mutual well-being is essential.
    • Seven Levels of Intimacy:

      • Amy introduces the intimacy pyramid, which includes verbal, cognitive, emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical, and sexual intimacy, stressing the importance of nurturing these aspects within oneself first.
      • Rewiring Thought Patterns:

        • Discussion on the importance of altering one's thought patterns that have been shaped by past dysfunctional relationships or family backgrounds to foster a healthy self-image and expectations from relationships.
        • Expectations and Safety:

          • Emphasizing how setting healthy expectations and creating personal safety are pivotal before inviting another person into one's life, ensuring that these expectations are realistic and self-focused.
          • Creating Healthy Foundations:

            • Insights into how personal growth and establishing a healthy baseline within oneself can lead to better relationship choices, allowing one to attract and recognize partners who are equally committed to maintaining healthy interactions.
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            • SWAG SHOP: Mugs, Hoodie, Empowerment Journal and coming soon.... TRIGGER KIT!
            • DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one AUGUST

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              ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

              Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included.

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              Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment.

              ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

              I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Through my own journey and deeply personal decision around should I stay or go,  I realized that there is no 'right' choice-  but that I make the choice right, by being the chooser of it.

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              The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and AbuseBy Amie Woolsey Certified Brainspotting Practitioner, PCC, APSATS-CPC,ELI-MP, C-DGS

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