Dating From Within Workshop October 12th-14th

SummaryAmie's Desire to Connect With DivorceesAmie shared her feelings of wanting to connect with her listeners, particularly those going through divorce. She acknowledged the struggle of loving someone who was unable to reciprocate that love and accepted that their ability to love was not a deficiency. Amie emphasized that the love offered was enough, despite the partner's inability to change destructive behaviors. She also expressed her desire to help these women heal from their past wounds.

Fear of Relationship After BetrayalsAmie discussed his fear and hesitation about getting into another relationship after past experiences. Despite his efforts, he found that the scenarios he sought after still held the possibility of emotional danger. While he acknowledged his readiness to communicate and share life with another person, he expressed a continued fear of being betrayed or duped. Amie also mentioned that he went on dates set up by others, but these did not work out due to a lack of connection or the presence of red flags.

Self-Discovery and Agency in ChoicesAmie shared her journey of self-discovery and the realization that she needed to feel safe within herself and her body to make choices. She emphasized the importance of using one's agency to make conscious decisions. Amie recognized that she had been living in a passive role, wanting someone else to choose for her, but understood that true agency comes from actively choosing. She believed that this shift in mindset, from being acted upon to acting, was pivotal in her personal growth.

Amie's Journey Through Online DatingAmie discussed her experience with online dating, highlighting her process of selecting a dating site after having had negative experiences previously. She emphasized her new approach to dating, which involved believing in herself and her capabilities to love, recognizing what a healthy relationship looked like, and understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy patterns. She noted the importance of her past experiences, including observing couples while cleaning homes, in helping her navigate difficult conversations and interactions. She also mentioned the need to recognize and learn from past mistakes, to trust herself, and to avoid betraying her values or compromising her body.

Healing, Self-Discovery, and Relationship Risk-TakingAmie shared her ongoing journey of healing and self-discovery after five years of her second marriage. She highlighted the importance of understanding one's past experiences, untying unhealthy attachments, and being present in the current situation. Amie emphasized the need for self-awareness, self-love, and intimacy, and encouraged her audience to take their time through her recorded workshop and accompanying workbook. She also stressed the concept of taking a "healthy risk" in relationships, contrasting the idealized version of relationships often portrayed in media with the reality that relationships involve vulnerability and the risk of rejection. Despite moments of doubt and disbelief due to past trauma, Amie affirmed her commitment to learning and growing. She shared her own experience of having difficult conversations with her spouse because she prioritized her personal values and vows to herself.

Dating Workshop: Gain Male PerspectiveAmie emphasized the importance of choosing one's dating experience and encouraged everyone to join the upcoming "Dating from Within" workshop. She mentioned the event will provide information, coaching opportunities, and a live Q&A session with Scott. Amie also stressed the value of gaining a male perspective on dating and choosing one's dating experience. She urged everyone to sign up for the workshop through the show notes.

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